A personal message
Last night my Dad lost his long battle with cancer and heart disease. He was at the Hospice Care Facility here in Madison, where he was cared for by real angels on earth.
The night before, I was able to spend the entire night with him. I lay in the bed with him, with my head on his chest. I rubbed his head and arm all night and with every struggled breath, I told him I was here and I that I loved him.
Yesterday, the doctor told us that he thought my Dad would live for one more day. My mom, husband and sister encouraged me to head back home for a quick check on the girls. I ran home, checked the girls and came back. I arrived back to his room at 5:02 and he has passed away just two minutes prior at 5:00 PM. I was heartbroken.
But the Hospice nurse hugged me and she said, "Gina, you were his little girl. He was waiting until you were gone to die. He didn't want you to have to see that." I find some comfort in her words. I know my Dad hated to see me upset.
My Dad had become blind 4 years ago and he was almost deaf. He was completely cut off from everything and everyone he loved. He suffered from severe depression from his blindness because, like most of us, he had always found great joy in crafting, reading and watching sports. (His craft was lamp making and he made almost all of the lamps in my home. He loved to work with his hands.)
He had a sense of humor that was second to none. He made his living as a comedian and, although he hadn't laughed much in the last four years, he certainly helped millions of people over the years through his comedy. As the saying goes, "Laughter is the best medicine." He knew that and loved what he did.
Although I am devastated by my loss, I find great joy in knowing that his suffering is over. Yesterday at 5:00 PM, my Dad's eyes were finally opened, his ears could finally hear again. His body was young and strong, just like that medal winning Olympic gymnast he was all those years ago. He found comfort in his Mother, Father, baby daughter and all of those who had gone before him and he was enveloped in the arms of Christ.
Thanks for letting me share this with you. And thank you so much for all of your prayers, thoughts, concerns and well wishes. My family and I have found great comfort in that.
With love,
Gina
The night before, I was able to spend the entire night with him. I lay in the bed with him, with my head on his chest. I rubbed his head and arm all night and with every struggled breath, I told him I was here and I that I loved him.
Yesterday, the doctor told us that he thought my Dad would live for one more day. My mom, husband and sister encouraged me to head back home for a quick check on the girls. I ran home, checked the girls and came back. I arrived back to his room at 5:02 and he has passed away just two minutes prior at 5:00 PM. I was heartbroken.
But the Hospice nurse hugged me and she said, "Gina, you were his little girl. He was waiting until you were gone to die. He didn't want you to have to see that." I find some comfort in her words. I know my Dad hated to see me upset.
My Dad had become blind 4 years ago and he was almost deaf. He was completely cut off from everything and everyone he loved. He suffered from severe depression from his blindness because, like most of us, he had always found great joy in crafting, reading and watching sports. (His craft was lamp making and he made almost all of the lamps in my home. He loved to work with his hands.)
He had a sense of humor that was second to none. He made his living as a comedian and, although he hadn't laughed much in the last four years, he certainly helped millions of people over the years through his comedy. As the saying goes, "Laughter is the best medicine." He knew that and loved what he did.
Although I am devastated by my loss, I find great joy in knowing that his suffering is over. Yesterday at 5:00 PM, my Dad's eyes were finally opened, his ears could finally hear again. His body was young and strong, just like that medal winning Olympic gymnast he was all those years ago. He found comfort in his Mother, Father, baby daughter and all of those who had gone before him and he was enveloped in the arms of Christ.
Thanks for letting me share this with you. And thank you so much for all of your prayers, thoughts, concerns and well wishes. My family and I have found great comfort in that.
With love,
Gina
I am so sorry to read about your Dad. My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. I know how hard it is to loose your Dad. Cherish the time you had with him and know that he will always be with you.
{{{{{HUGS}}}}}
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Gina, so sorry for your loss. I'm so thankful that your Dad is hanging with the DAD of all Dad's now! And that you'll be able to spend time with him again someday. May you continue to feel the great arms of our FATHER around you while you grieve. ((hugs))
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Oh Gina, I am so sorry. I know how badly you hurt. It is devastating to lose a parent, but I am so glad that you can take comfort in knowing that your beloved dad is at home with Jesus. Take comfort, dear girl, in knowing that your father knew how very much you loved him.
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Gina, I am so sorry for your loss. Sending prayers your way.
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My deepest condolences to you and your family Gina.
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Oh Gina, I am so sorry for your lost. Just know that he is in a much better place, where he can laugh and craft as long as he wants
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Gina, I am so sorry for your loss. You are such a brave lady and this I'm sure this strength has come from your father. He is at peace now and his suffering is over. You and your family are in my thoughts. Lots of love, Denise x
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God Bless you and your family. I know how hard it is to loose your Dad.But be sure and know that he will always be with you. I feel mine close to me everyday.It never goes away but it does get better, your cherished memories help to ease the pain of loss.
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So sorry for your loss, Gina. Both of my parents are gone now so I share your pain.....
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I am so sorry to hear about your Dad's passing. The nurses are right. Often individuals who are dying do choose the moment for it to happen.This was his final gift to you.
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Gina, I hope you will take comfort in knowing that there are thousands of people out here praying for you and your entire family right now. Your father is finally completely happy and whole, and blissfully in the presence of our Savior. We love you Gina.
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prayers for you and your family to have peace and strength during this time.
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Gina & Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I send sincere condolences to you in the loss of your father. I was only 5 yrs old when I lost my Dad so barely got to know him. Remember all those great moments and your Dad will live on in your heart.
Hugs,
Judy from Manitoba, Canada
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Gina, I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you. Hugs, Shannon
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How wonderful that you have the assurance that your Dad IS "renewed" and with his Savior for eternity! It was a great blessing for me to know that the same was true for my husband when he died. Now we live on, enjoying (and at times reliving) the thousands of memories we have of our times spent with them here on earth. Those memories become so precious.
Love in Jesus,
Deanna M.
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Dear Dear Gina...Thank you for sharing your heartfelt thoughts with all of us
As the tears run down my cheeks..I just know that your dear Dad will watch from above and continue to be so proud of all the happiness you bring into the world with your sharings of your great gifts with all of us...Hugs Deloris
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God Bless you and your family, Gina. My thoughts and prayers are with you . . .
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Gina,
My sincere condolences on the loss of your father.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Hugs...Jen
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Gina my heart goes out to you. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
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My deepest sympathy to you in your loss. You give strong witness to a deep and abiding faith that assures us that those we love are never gone - I know my own mom and dad were there yesterday at 5:00 to welcome him to heaven. They loved a good laugh and I'm sure your dad will brighten even heaven with his good humor! Jan
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Gina, as I read this with tears in my eyes I know in my heart that he is at peace. I pray for comfort and love for your family. I know you will be surrounded by loving friends and family members as you are such a special part of our world.
I lost my dad to cancer 13 years ago and it is indeed hard for them to surrender what is familiar. At the time, my dad had to have assistance with everything.
Now your dad is home, and helping Him make a "lamp" unto our feet and a light unto our path.
Hugs to you and the family~
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Blessings to you and your family during this difficult time Gina. It sounds like you had a wonderful relationship with your Dad, may you be comforted by all the great memories of him.
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Gina, You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Both of my grandparents passed away at the very same hospice center. You are right, those people working there are true angels. Remember the good times and they will get you through the grieving process.
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Gina I am so sorry for your loss ,Me and my family will be praying for you and your family ,Keep your head up ,your a wonderful person.
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Gina my sincerest condolences to you and your family. Your story is so similar to mine when my dad died 13 years ago. Sending you lots of hugs and prayers.
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Gina, I know words are of little comfort at this time having been through this myself. Our sorrow is but for a time here on this earth. As you said, rejoice, he is home.
In His Name,
angie
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I'm so sorry for your loss! He sounded like an incredible man and that you were blessed to have him in your life - hold on to the wonderful memories and be comforted in the knowledge that he is in a greater place now.
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What a beautiful testimony to a life of love. Thank you for sharing such tender memories with us. May your father's soul rest in peace and may the peace of our heavenly Father envelope you and your family.
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I too am so sorry for your loss. Your post was so eloquent and a real tribute to an amazing man. I'm sending you hugs with this message.
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My deepest sympathy for your loss. He sounds like a wonderful man and father. My hope sustain you, friends surround you and love give you strength.
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Gina,
I am so sorry for what you and your family are going through right now. Please accept my heartfelt condolences and know that I am sending you love and prayers.
Hugs,
Teresa
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Oh Gina my heart breaks for you! I lost my dad last year and I would have to agree with that wonderful nurse's words that he did not want you to see him go. That was the hardest things I have ever been through. He sounds like he was an incredible man and you a wonderful daughter. My heart is with you, your mom and your entire family.
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I totally understand how you feel after losing my Mom last November. I still miss her so very much.
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I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Gina, my heart goes out to you and your family. It is so hard to lose a love one. Thank you for your story, you really have a way with words. My prayers are with you all as these next few days will be difficult. Each day becomes easier, but it does take time. You have such loving memories to help guide you each day until you meet again. He is in the loving arms of Christ and with his loving family that left before him. God is good! Bless you all!
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Very sorry and sad for your lost. you have a new angel seeking over you and your family. All my condolences to you and your family. warm hugs xxx
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Gina, I am so sad for you and your family. Please know that you are in my prayers as you mourn your father's passing. Celebrate his life, your memories with him, and honor your feelings of loss. I wish you the best.
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Dear Gina, I am so sorry for the loss of your dad. Reading your message brought back so many memories of my own father who died 6 years ago. Your experience with your dad's passing was very similar to mine. Do not feel sorrowful that you were not with him when he died. My sisters and I finally had to leave his room in order for him to be able to die. It is very strange thing but the words his hospice nurse said are very true and not said just to give you comfort but I hope they do. I, like you, know that my dad whose great passion was ballroom dancing and who could not even walk the last three years of his life, danced into the arms of Jesus and is rejoicing in this new and better life. I am praying for peace and comfort for you and your family.
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My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Find strength in all the wonderful memories of your Dad, he will always be in your heart. Hugs.
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Oh My Gosh Gina, I am so sorry for your loss... I know this loss first hand as I have also lost my Father. My heart hurts with you so much, the tears are flowing... I pray that you will find comfort in knowing that he is with the Lord. I also pray comfort for you and your family through the lifetime of happy memories you have shared. Love and prayers for all of you.
Sincerely, Karen T.
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I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my father when he was only 45. As heartbreaking as it is for us, no one should have to suffer with pain.
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My deepest sympathy's are with you and your family. I am so sorry for you loss. You are in my prayers. *hugs*
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Gina I am so sorry for you loss. My heart goes out to you and your family. Try and remember the good times with your Dad. They will help you get through the hard times. I will keep you and your family in our prayers.
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Nothing I can say now will ease your grief, but know that you ( and your family) are being prayed for to get through this horrible time. I lost my dad nearly 30 years ago, and it gets a little easier in the day to day, but not in the heart. Remember, your dad knew he was loved, that's the most important thing.
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So sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family. It sounds like he was a wonderful man who had lived a very full life.
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Gina, my heart goes out to you and your family. Your beautiful testimony to him really touched my heart. How lucky that you both had each other, too. I'm sure you have wonderful memories of your dad that will help you through this difficult time. Thank you for sharing with all of us. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Shirley L.
Roseville, CA
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I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, Gina! Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
May you find comfort in all of your wonderful memories and know that your Dad is finally at peace.
~Hugs!
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So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Your Dad will be with you always and think of that every time you turn on one of those wonderfully handcrafted lamps his hands created.
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I am so sorry. I lost my dad a year ago and we, too, had hospice care for him. I agree with you - they are angels and helped me so much.
You are in my prayers.
Vicki
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Gina, may you continue to find peace and comfort in knowing that your DAD is in the loving care of Jesus. Don't ever be afraid to go to Christ when you are feeling lonely over your loss.
My most sincere condolences to you and your family.
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Oh Gina, I am so very sorry for your loss. I am in tears for you. May you be blessed with comfort and the peace that surpasses all understanding from the Lord. Much love to you and your family.
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Your message brought tears to my eyes. My heart aches for you. I am so grateful to still have my Dad and dread the day I lose him.
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Gina, I am so truly sorry for your loss. I hope you do find some comfort in the nurse's words and in the fact that your dad is so much happier now with the Lord. He is finally free. I will keep you and your family in my prayers through this very difficult time. **Big Hugs** to you. He will live on in your fond memories for a lifetime.
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Gina, my deepest sympathy, I am sorry to hear of your loss. Treasure your memories that you had with your dad and take comfort in knowing that he is free from all his suffering. My prayers go out to you and your family to give you strength during this difficult time. take good care
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Dear Gina,
My most sincere sympathies are with you during this difficult time. How wonderful that you were with him the night before and that he was able to spare you that final moment of pain. Not for him - but for you. May fond memories and a loving heart bring you comfort in the following days, weeks and months.
Know that we are all grieving with you. Your post was so sincere, warm and loving. We have been blessed by you Gina, let us bless you now with our prayers and thoughts.
Hugs and tears and smiles and prayers are all coming your way.
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gina im very sorry for you loss. my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
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Crying as I read this .... part of life to see the passing of one's father. Mine passed away 27 years ago. Warmest thoughts of you and prayers for your family.
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Dear Gina:
My greatest fear before is to die alone, but if we believe in the existence of God then we truly are never alone. Though you were not at his side God was there to help him. You are a wonderful daughter, and though he is gone he is now watching over you and your children.
My sincere condolences on the loss of your father.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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Gina--I am so sorry. Please find comfort in the nurse's words to you--my mother did the same thing for me-she waited until I was away. I do find comfort in that. My prayers are with you and your family. Know that your online family is here for you and we are sending you hugs.
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Gina--Thank you for sharing your story, I am sorry for your loss and hope that you and your family will be able to treasure the wonderful memories you have all gathered over the years...
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So sorry to hear of your loss, I am glad comfort is guiding you through the greaving process. Hugs to you and your family.
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Your father sounds like he was a great man! It was good that he got to spend the holidays with the family at home. So sorry for your loss. Pat B.
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Gina and family. My deepest sympathy. I hope you are able to keep those sweet and positive memories in this time of sorrow.
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Oh gina, I m sorry for your loss.....I was getting the shivers just reading your post...what a great man. Please be comforted in knowing that he will be waiting at the front gates for you.
Hugs,
Jennifer
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Gina: You and your family are in my prayers. Knowing that he is free from pain, can "see" again, and is now happy is certainly a comfort to you and your family.
MaryAnne
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Gina,
I am so sorry for the loss of your father. May God's love bring you peace.
debbie
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You never really get over the loss of a parent, you just go on. May you find comfort in knowing that he is no longer suffering. Hang in there.
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My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, Gina. I'm so sorry for your loss. Your dad sounds like he was a great man, and I'm sure you'll cherish the times you had with him forever.
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I am so sorry for your loss, but I love your perspective. Your dad is in a much happier place . . . you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers as you struggle through this difficult time.
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I am so sorry for your loss Gina. Your words about your father were so touching. I'm sure he was so proud of you.
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Gina, you made me cry. I have been trying to figure out a way to go see my dad for his 70th birthday in April. After reading your story, I am booking my plane reservations now!! Big hugs and lots of prayers are coming your way..
Pam
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Gina,
I'm so sorry to hear of your father's passing. It's wonderful that you were able to spend so much time with him at the end. My father passed almost 12 years ago and I still get teary when I think about it. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Take care of yourself,
Shawn K.
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I am so sorry for your loss Gina! Take pride in knowing he loved you forever and is now watching over you and your family. ((hugs))
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Gina - First my thought and prayers are with you and your family. Second thank you for sharing this with us. I also have lost my father and it is devastating. You have so many memories of your father and that is what keeps him alive in your heart and the hearts of the rest of the family. As you have said there is no more suffering and he is now in the arms of Jesus.
May The Lord bless you and your family.
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Gina, I am so sorry for your loss. Sending you peace and hugs. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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Gina, I am so sorry for your loss. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
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Gina, Your message brought tears to my eyes as well. Happy tears, though, because you are rejoicing that your dad is now healthy and whole with his Savior in heaven. My dad "waited" to die shortly after his MI grandchildren were able to get to the hospital at midnight. Everyone else had been able to say good-bye earlier. God works in such amazing ways! My prayers are with you and your entire family for God's comfort, peace and reassurance!
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Gina, I'm so sorry for your loss, but I am happy your father is now continuing his journey. I lost my father 7 years ago. Like you, I was not with him when he passed and the nurses said the same thing they told you. Just know that he wanted your last memory of him to be a good one. Your father will never really be gone. I feel my father's presence every single day. Take care, Wendy
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Oh Gina! I am so sorry....it is so hard on those left behind but I know your dad is watching over you and smiling because you are such a wonderful daughter. Much love and prayers for you and your family
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Gina, I am so sorry for your loss. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs, Sarah
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Oh my, Gina, so sorry for your loss. Your words brought tears to my eyes. My sympathy to you and your family.
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Gina, I'm so very sorry for your loss. What a beautiful picture! Thanks so much for sharing your story with us. Your strength in Christ is amazing and will pull you through. You father is lucky to have you as his daughter. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you heal and go forward. Katie
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Oh Gina, I am so saddened and sorry for your loss. I will hold you and your family in my prayers. Sending hugs, Pat
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I am really sorry, Gina... I know that we will never get over our parents loss. I lost my father, when I was 15. But I still have this pain and loss in my heart... He died from cancer too. But he is always alive in my heart, in my dreams and he is always with me in my memories.
Sending you and your family my deepest sympathy...
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I'm so very sorry for your loss, Gina. I pray you and your family find comfort in the memories of wonderful times with your Dad and in knowing he is at peace now. I'm praying for you.
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Gina,
May God give you and your family the strength you need right now. It is a blessing you have had your father for so long and your children met him. I lost my father when my son was just 7 months old.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Sincerely,
Trena
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Oh, Gina -- I'm so sorry to hear this. But like you said, he is happy & healthy once again and just think of all those in heaven who will be smiling because of your Dad's wonderful sense of humor. Nevertheless, it is hard for those still here -- my deepest sympathy is with you and your family. Big Hugs, Sharon
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I am so sorry for your loss. It was a good thing you were able to spend quality time with him to comfort him. God bless.
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I am so very very sorry Gina! But I know he was thankful you were able to be there with him the night before. Sending you lots of prayers for peace as you face life without the first special man in your life. We girls have a thing for our Dads, don't we?
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Gina, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your Father. We deepest sympathies are with you. I lost my Mother 6 months ago to cancer. And, like your Father, she waited until Dad and I had gone to eat before giving up the fight. We felt so guilty for leaving, but the doctor had said she probably had a week left. Just take comfort in your memories of all the wonderful times you had together. It is so painful, I know, but time does help with your healing.
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Gina, I am so sorry for you loss...but I thank you for sharing your sorrow with us today. I will be praying for you and your family. As I am sure everyone in the crafting world will be praying for you as well. I believe what the hospice nurse said to you was true...your dad didn't want you to see him take his last breath. Find comfort in the fact that you spent that time with him before you left for a short trip home. He knew you were there...and he will be watching over you forever.
HUGS,
Charmaine
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My deepest sympathy and condolences to you and your family.Take care.
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Gina,
I'm so sorry for your lost. You and family will be in my prayers.
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Gina, I am so sorry for your loss. Your dad sounded like a great man. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Sending long distance hugs too.
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Gina, my thoughts and prayers are with you right now. It's never easy to lose a parent, regardles of their health situation or age. May you find comfort in your family right now, and with all the prayers being showered down upon you all. (((((HUGS)))))
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I am so sorry to hear about your dad's passing. Prayers and hugs going out to you and your family.
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My prayers are with you and your family.
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My heart and prayers are with you. I went through losing my Father almost 2 years ago. He too was in the care of Hospice. They are truly angels on Earth.
Although we all miss him during the holidays, it's the little things that sneak up on you. For me it has been not getting to have that race to see who gets the first tomato and not getting to call him and tell him that his grandson won the pinewood derby yesterday. Just remember that God only gives you what he knows you can handle. You will have strength when you need it.
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Gina - I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your father. I lost my father to cancer and heart disease 2 years ago. I miss him every day, but like you, I take comfort in the thought of him no longer suffering and being in Gods home now. Even though he is no longer here with me, I know that I am still his little girl. I feel him watching over me and taking care of me every day!!! Know that you will always be your fathers little girl and he will be watching over and taking care of you also.
I hope and pray the you find comfort in the wonderful memories of your father and use those memories to gather strength to get through the rough times. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers
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Gina,
I can't even imagine what you are going thru right now so I just want to send you all my love in that difficult time. I wish I could just hug you as long as I can.
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Gina, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. It sounds like your Dad was a remarkable man who made you all happy and lived his life to the fullest. You must have gotten all that from him. Keep him alive in your heart with all those wonderful memories you all made with him and someday you will all join him again and be together with our good Lord and Saviour. Big Hugs to you and your family.
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My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Your dad is in a wonderful place now.
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Gina,
I know you through your blog, but reading about you and your father has touched my heart deeply. I too lost my father to cancer and I was not there when he died, I was 600 miles away. What made me feel somewhat at ease is when I was told the Hospice nurse told me that right before he died, he was blowing kisses to the nurses and he said the angels. I was Daddy's little girl. Thank you for sharing your personal thoughts and helping me to remember mine. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Melanie W.
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{{{{{GINA}}}}} My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Gina.
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WHAT A WONDERFUL THING THAT YOU DID IN SHARING YOUR DAD'S PASSING WITH ALL OF US. I VOLUNTEERED AS A HOSPICE WORKER A FEW YEARS BACK, AND AM SO HAPPY THAT YOU HAD THAT FACILITY NEAR YOU. I BELIEVE THAT HE WILL BE WITH YOU IN SPIRIT FOREVER. LOVE TO YOUR ENTIRE FAMILY. ABSOLUTELY LOVED THE PICTURE.
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Dear, sweet Gina. My deepest sympathy to you and your family. I want to say more, but I can't see to type through my tears for you.
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God speed Benjamin! You are well loved!
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Gina, I am so sorry to hear this. I follow your blog regularly but rarely comment. I have been brought to tears this morning with your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
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Gina - I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my dad 9 years ago and it was like it was yesterday. You (and your family) are in my thoughts and prayers today. He IS in a better place !!!
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And there was Peace..........Love to your sweet family....
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Gina - I am so sorry for the loss of your father. As I have followed your documentation of his life in the few months I am reading your blog, never a story went by when you didn't touch my heart. I lost my dad 4 years ago at a relatively young age of 62. I was heartbroken when he past. Although I still cry for his loss, I am now able to laugh at his time with us with true joy. It already sounds like you have found a minor bit of comfort in his passing. I am sure through your blog, and scrapbooking and stamping you will have much to document on his life in time.
My prayers are with you all.
Paula
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Please accept my sincere sympathy, Gina. May you find comfort in knowing our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
God Bless You.
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Gina,
My heart goes out to you and your family! As I read your touching tribute to your dad I had tears in my eyes! What beautiful things to say about a father, he must have been a wonderful man! My thoughts and prayers will remain with you and your family as you grieve his loss.
(((HUGS)))
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Oh Gina,
I am so sorry for your loss. I have lost both of my parents and know how hard it is. My heart goes out to you and your family. Also, trust the words of that very special nurse. I had the same thing happen with my very special Father-in-law. We sat by his side for 2 days and were going to take my mil out for a short break. We all went in individually and spoke with him assuring him we would be back shortly and he chose to leave while we were gone. It is hard and the question still remains should I have left but I know your dad loved you and wanted to spare you. You and your family are in my
thoughts and prayers. May you find comfort in knowing your dad is now healthy and happy in a very special place.
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Gina~
My prayers are with you and your family through this difficult time...
I am sorry for your loss, but rejoice in the fact he is Home, with Our Saviour.
Kris
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And there was Peace..........Love to your sweet family....
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Oh Gina.....hugs to you and your family! I was in your exact position July 2007. It is a very hard thing to deal with. You are a strong woman and will get through this. I'm glad he is now at peace after everything he's gone through for the last 4 years. When things get hard, just remember, you always carry him with you in your heart. He is always there. Take care!
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Gina, thank you for publishing such a lovely tribute to your dad. May he rest easy in the arms of Jesus and may you and your family be comforted with God's love as never before. Be well and blessed, dear lady!
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Oh Gina! I'm so sorry! May you find comfort in knowing that he is with our Lord now and is free from any pain or suffering. Take care always! {{{HUGS}}}
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This is a time of mixed emotions...sorrow for the (temporary) loss (one day you will see your dad again)...oy that your father hears and sees in Heaven. I'm praying for you and for you family.
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My deepest sympathy to you and your family. I lost my father to lung cancer almost 11 years ago when my daughter was just 3 weeks old. Like you, I was not at his side. I honestly feel that his hospice nurse was right. He didn't want to go in front of you. My father waited for the hospice nurse because he didn't want my mother to have to handle everything on her own. I hope you find some comfort in your memories.
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My most sincere condolences for your loss. The tribute to your father is very touching . . . I felt like I knew him from your words alone. God Bless You . . .
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I am sorry for your loss.
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Oh Gina, sorry to hear about your dad, but what a wonderful tribute you've written. May God comfort you and your family during this time of loss.
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Gina, My sympathy and prayers are with you and your family.
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Gina, what a beautiful tribute you wrote about your wonderful father! I remember my own father's last days when he too was dying of cancer. My deepest sympathy go out to you and your family. God bless you.
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Gina, Sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers are with you and your family. Your dad sounded like a wonderful person. You are truly blessed to have a loving father and will have that memory in your heart forever. Big hugs.
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Gina.......I am so sorry for what you are going through right now. I haven't lost my parents yet but I know it is only a matter of time and the thought of it breaks my heart so I can only imagine what you are going through. I will be keeping you and your family in my prayers. I'm happy for your father that his suffering is over...when my husband died, that is the only thing that made me feel better...knowing that he was much happier now. Take care...Carmaine
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Oh Gina, I am so sorry to read this! Hospice are angels here on earth. How sad I am for all of you, but I know he will live on your hearts. I know that you will find some comfort in knowing that his suffering is over and that he is in heaven - he has been made whole again and is reunited with those that have passed on before him.
{{{{hugs}}}}
Rebecca
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Gina - my heart goes out to you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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i can only imagine how difficult it must be to deal with your father's passing. take comfort knowing people care for you and wish we could take away your pain. big hugs.
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{{{HUGS}}} Gina! I am so sorry to hear of your dad's passing. Your post was so beautiful and brought tears to my eyes. May your dad be at peace and you & your family find solace in your memories.
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Gina, I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing this time with us. I know you will find peace knowing your Dad is with Jesus. May God continue to bless you and your family during this time.
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He was blessed to have such a loving daughter, I pray for strength for you and your family to get thru this difficult loss in your lives.
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Gina -
Your post brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for sharing such beautiful words about your dad. I am so sorry for your loss and send my condolences
to you and your family at this most difficult time. Your dad sounds like a wonderful person and your relationship must have been very special. God bless!
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What a beautiful tribute to your father, Gina! I'm so sorry for your loss, but rejoice with you that he is now free from his health issues.
How wonderful that he was a comedian! I pray that my dad's in his audience now, laughing along with everyone.
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Gina, I am so sorry to hear about your lose! My heart and prayers go out to you and your family.
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Gina, I'm so sorry to hear about your Dad. I'm sitting here crying as I'm responding. We lost my Dad 3 years ago to cancer. He stayed at my brother's home with hospice care as needed and I took care of him for his last two weeks. Like you, on a weekend I went home to see my kids and that night he died in his sleep. Part of me felt bad about it...but part of me also believed that he waited for me not to be there. He'd already told me that taking care of him and watching him die was harder on me than it was on him. So, maybe your Dad's nurse was right. Hang in there and hold tight to the good memories.
Jane
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Gina,
So sorry to hear about your Dad, but the nurse was definately right, as a nurse myself I hsve seen this many times. Cherish your precious memories of him and the times you've had....no one can take them away, ever. SharriC
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Gina, I know how you feel. I lost my Dad last summer and he died when my sister and I left for a couple of hours. The hospice nurse (and yes they are angels)called us to tell of his death. She also said he didn't want us there when he died. He'd been at the Hospice House for 9 days. My prayers are with you
Johanna
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That was beautifully written. I am sorry for your loss and for your sadness.
God Bless.
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Gina, I'm so sorry to hear about your Dad. I'm sitting here crying as I'm responding. We lost my Dad 3 years ago to cancer. He stayed at my brother's home with hospice care as needed and I took care of him for his last two weeks. Like you, on a weekend I went home to see my kids and that night he died in his sleep. Part of me felt bad about it...but part of me also believed that he waited for me not to be there. He'd already told me that taking care of him and watching him die was harder on me than it was on him. So, maybe your Dad's nurse was right. Hang in there and hold tight to the good memories.
Jane
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I am so very sorry for your loss. I am sure that the many wonderful memories you have of your father will help you during this difficult time. May knowing that your father is in peace now bring you comfort. You and your family will be in my prayers.
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Dear Gina - My heartfelt sympathy to you and yours during this difficult time. I will pray for strength and comfort for you in the day and weeks to come.
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Gina,
I am so sorry to hear about your Dad. I lost mine 4 years ago. I know what you are going through. May your memories give you strength during this difficult time.
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Gina, thank you for sharing such a personal and moving time in your life with us. Your father sounds like such a fun man to have known. I'm sure that he is in a better place now and you have some wonderful memories to hold on to.
Peace be with you and your family.
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Oh Gina,
I am so sorry for your loss. As someone who has lost a parent I know what you are going through. But nothing compares to what we will see or experience after we leave this earth.
God bless you and your family during this difficult time.
Love,
Angie
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Gina,
My sincere condolences on the loss of your father.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Hugs...Jen
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I am so sorry to hear about your Dad. Jan. 29 was the 6th anniversary of my dad's passing and to this day I still remember how hard it was to get through. My dad passed away all by himself--he went to my sister's house and shoveled snow when she wasn't home and was found by a passerby--so we never got to say goodbye.
My uncle passed in November 2007. Our family spent the day at hospice with him. When we left for dinner (one of my brothers did stay with him), that is when he passed away. The hospice nurse told my cousin that he was just waiting for all of us to leave.
Hugs to you!
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Deepest sympathy and prayers are with you and your family. May he rest in peace.
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Gina, I am so sorry for your loss. When I read this morning you lost your daddy I was flooded with memories of losing my daddy and my heart ached for you. I know God will see you through this time, but know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. God bless my friend.
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I'm sorry for your loss. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
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Gina,
i am so sorry for your loss, my heart goes out to you and your family. He sounded like a wonderful, wonderful man.
Carolyn
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I am so sorry for your loss, Gina. I lost my dad about 25 years ago, and I still miss him. But I know that he is in a wonderful place, happy and fishing!Take care, my friend.
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Im so sorry to hear about your Dad. You are a wonderful daughter and Im sure the nurse was right. May your happy memories of your Dad ease this time of grief.
Ansa
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My thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time.
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Gina, my thoughts and prayers are with your and your family.
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Oh Gina.........
My Thoughts and Prayers are with you an your family at this time.
Hold on to the happy days.........
I'll be in touch,
Hugs,
Vicky~~
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prayers for you and your family
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Gina, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You can keep all of those good memories and know that he is at peace. My heart is with you and your family.
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Gina,
I am SO sorry to hear of your loss, what a horrible thing, yet such a courageous battle. Have peace in knowing your Daddy is happy, healthy and with God. He will be watching over you just like when you were little.
I totally agree about Nurses being Angels here on earth, God Bless Them!!!!
Hugs to you and yours,
KelliJo
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Gina, I'm so sorry for your loss. I know what you are going through as I lost my father 2 years ago. We (all 18 of his children & their spouses) cared for him w/Mom at his home. The last 3 months of his life at least 2 of us were with him everyday. I had gone home on the last day to get some sleep. Dreamnt that dad was standing with his arms folded over his chest in his classic stance, in a healthy body ---- with a BIG smile on his face. I awoke from this dream with the phone ringing, one of my siblings calling to say Dad had passes. I still carry that joyous picture of Dad in my heart/mind & recall it daily. Brings instant peace as he was no longer in pain or suffering. In my mind he's telling me he's joyous & to recall all the GREAT family times we had. I won't say it gets better as time passes, as the pain/emptiness is always with you, although as time passes its not 24/7. My thoughts & prayers are with you, your Mother, and family.
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Awww, Gina, I am so sorry for your loss; I think that nurse was right; take comfort from her words, in happy memories and the prayers sent from all of us;
Kathy
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Gina, I know how hard it is to let go even though you know your father has gone to a better place. My dad also waited until I was away from him for a few minutes because he knew I could not let go of him...so he took that decision upon himself (as it should be) to go when he chose to go. Otherwise I must admit I am selfish and I would never have given him up.
My heart hurts for you and smiles for you at the same time if that makes any sense at all. That is because you will always feel the loss of your father and yet you will always feel a part of him with you too.
Take Care & God Bless!
Cheri
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Wow, Gina! That was by far the most moving blog post I have ever read!! Thank you for sharing that! Although I am SO sorry for your loss, I agree with your last words. He is in a better place and has shed all his worldly ailments!! I too went thru what you did, with my pop-pop! I was VERY close to him and held his hand, thru the night, while he was in Hospice. What that cargiver said to you is SO true!! My heart goes out to you in your time of sorrow and joy. Thanks again for sharing your story, it reminds me of my grandfather and that is wonderful! I hope you and your family take care!!
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SO sorry for your loss Gina... I think you spent the important time with him- the night and day before... Enjoy the good memories!
Hugs and wishes...
Diane
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Gina: Please know that my heart goes out to you. I lost both my parents to cancer and have an idea what you are going through. I, too, missed by minutes the last breath my father took. While making my frantic long-distance drive to the hospital to see my father, I asked the nurses to whisper in his ear that I was on my way and that I loved him. After making the 12-hour drive non-stop, I was able to see him to tell him myself and spent a few hours with him. I stepped out briefly to get some dinner and to get a hotel room when I rec'd the dreaded phone call that his condition changed. He passed away while I was out. While this isn't an easy time for you, knowing that you were able to see him and spend that time with him the night before is a gift. God bless you and your family during this difficult time.
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I am so sorry to hear about your Dad. My boss lost his mother the same day. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. You are right that he is now in a better place.
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Dear Gina,
I'm so sorry to hear about your dad. I symapathize with you. I lost my dad to cancer 7 years ago. It is wonderful to know that someday we get to be reunited with our loved ones. Hold on to the memories. Thoughts and prayers,
Judie
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Dear One, my heart goes out to you. I have lost both of my parents and I have survived that from all the memories that they made possible for me. Your tribute brought tears to me eyes. He is in a better place, no more depression, no more tears, and Christ was there waiting for him. What a priviledge. GOD Bless Mo
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GIna- I am so sorry for your tremendous loss. I know what you are going through, as I lost my father 17 years ago when he was only 61. What a beautiful tribute you have out together for him. I do believe that sometimes people wait until their loved ones are gone to pass. They don'r want our last memory of them to be of the death. Keep your memories in your heart, and know that your father is looking down on you with such peace and joy in his heart.
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Gina, I am so sorry for your loss. Nothing ever takes the place of a daddy. May God put His arms around you and give you peace
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Oh Gina, I am so sorry to hear about your dad. Through your blog, I feel like I have come to know you! My heart and sympathy goes out to you and your family.
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Hi Gina..
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your DAD..he is at peace now*
but the memories live on forever.
I lost my DAD last month, just before
Christmas.
Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family....and lots of HUGS!!
Dee
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Gina, it is with tears in my eyes that I say I'm so sorry for your loss. I pray that you can find comfort knowing his body is new again! And it sounds like you do. What a beautiful daughter you are and it sounds like you had an amazing father! Hugs to you!
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Dear Gina,
May God's Holy Spirit comfort and bless you and your family and heal your broken hearts.
In Christ,
Gail R.
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Ahhhh, Gina I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your Dear Dad. Please take comfort in knowing that he is at peace, with the best eyes and ears ever! May God Bless you and help you find peace.
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Gina -- I am so sorry for your loss. I'm sure you made his passing so much easier by being there beside him at a time he might have needed you most.
Hugs,
Karen
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Gina,
I'm so very sorry for your loss. I'm keeping you and your family in my thoughts.
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I lost my own Dad to brain cancer a few years ago. Know that you and yours are in our prayers.
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Gina and family,
Your father sounds like a great person. I wish I could have know him. You were blessed with a great father. Know he is always with you. I will pray for you and your family.
Jen and Family
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Gina, I am so sorry to hear that your Dad passed away. I had the same expereience with my Mom. I spent three nights with her and then had to return home to my job and family in another city and she passed away shortly after I left. Know that he loved you very much and he's free from all his suffering. Take care of you now and remember all the good times. Hugs and prayers to you and your family.
Donna
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Just want you to know I'm thinking of you and your family and sending love.
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Dear Gina,
I am very sorry for your loss Gina. He sounded like he had a very long, exciting and happy life. The best is that he believed in God and that he is there with the loved ones that went on before.
I lost my mom 4 years ago, to colon cancer, no one new she had it and she died at the age of 84. I miss her, but am thankful she excepted the Lord as her Savior before she dies. I will see her again one day.
I know how you feel, but it will pass in time. How precious the time was to be by his side the day before and love on him. I never had that kind of relationship with my dad, and anyone who does I am glad for them. You are truly blessed to have loved your dad as you did. I know God loves me that way.
Truly Gina I know your heart is full of alot of emotions, and I also know you will be fine. God loves us and will take care of us. It's always the living who have it hard after a loved one passes. So just love on all your other close family and you will all see each other through.
God Bless You!
Darlene Mitchell
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Dearest Gina..
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. What a wonderful man your father was!! I am so touched that you have shared such personal information with us. Your father was, no doubt, proud of his "little girl" for you are but a treasure to us all! Prayers and hugs to you and your family. God is surely receiving one of his best creations in your father.
Blessings,
Tina G
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Gina, what a touching beautiful story about your Dad. How special it must have been to have him in your life--anyone who can make others laugh and love as he did was a gift to you and to everyone who knew him. My wishes for comfort, fellow craftsperson.
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Gina, I am so sorry for your loss. i am glad that you have taken comfort in knowing that he is at peace and with those he loved who have gone before him. You and your family are in my thoughts and heart during this difficult time.
Hugs.
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Gina, I am so very sorry for your loss. (((Hugs))) My heart goes out to you and your family.
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Gina, my heart goes out to you and your family for your loss. My sincerest sympathy and hope that you will soon find hearts-ease.
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Gina, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I am so thankful that you are taking comfort in knowing that he is no longer in pain. I know that doesn't take the pain away but I love how you are not dwelling on the painful times but on all the good times. I will be praying for you and your family during this difficult time.
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Gina, I am SO sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathies to you and your family. I will keep you all in my prayers ((((hugs))))
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Gina ~ I am soooo very sorry for your loss of your Daddy. He sounds amazing ! And what you wrote of him shows the love you two shared. Stay strong as you are!
My prayers are with you & your family.
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Gina, I am so sorry for your loss. How sad and beautiful at the same time. Thank you for sharing this very personal story. You are in my prayers today.
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Oh, Gina, what a beautiful tribute you wrote... no doubt your Dad was an extraordinary man! And you are HIS daughter, and he was so very proud of you! May you find comfort in the cherished memories that will be with you forever. I know God is holding you in His arms, and your Dad is certainly joyful once again. HUGS to you...
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My heartfelt condolences are sent your way. May all your wonderful memories sustain you during this time and in the future. You wrote such a lovely note and I am so glad you know that your father went to be with his Heavenly father--what an awesome reunion he had.
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God be with you and your family during this time. My prayers are with you.
Hugs!!
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Gina, so very sorry for your loss. Take comfort in knowing that Dad is finally free from pain and suffering. Keep all the precious memories close and remember the good times.
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God bless you and your family!
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HUGS gina! Praying for you and your family!
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Oh Gina, I wish I could reach through the computer and give you a hug right now. I am so sorry for your loss. Hugs and prayers to you and your family.
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Gina, My heart goes out to you and your family at this time of lose. I too spent the last night of my fathers life with him, holding his hand, and calming him. He choose to pass on the next morning when I simply took a bathroom break. The nurse's told me the same they did you. To this day 8 years later I treasure those last moments I had with my dad and I am sure you will also. My prayers are with you all.
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My thoughts are with you and your family. What a special man your father was and how lucky you were to have him as your Dad.
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Gina, I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.
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Gina you and your family our in my prayers.
Cheryl
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Gina, these words have comforted me before:
Native American Prayer
I give you this one thought to keep-
I am with you still-I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning’s hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not think of me as gone
I am with you still-in each new dawn.
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That is beautiful..
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Gina I have you and your family in my thoughts and prayers!! May the Lord be with each of you and give comfort and strength!! {{{{HUGS}}}}
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I write this with tears in my eyes. The love that you have for your father shone through as I read this. What an amazing man he was and I know that you will all miss him. I hope that the comfort of the Lord will sustain you and the other loved ones that he left behind as you grieve for him. My prayers are with you and hope that you find a little of comfort knowing that he is in a better place and no longer suffering.
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My thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family. {{{hugs}}}
Hope J
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Gina, I am so sorry to hear about your father. You are in my thoughts. (hugs)
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Oh Gina. I am so sorry for you loss. Reading your post brings tears...it's so evident that you loved your precious father very much and he you. I rejoice along with you that is suffering is over. May God's comforting arms hold you and your family close as you mourn your dear father's passing.
Much love and many hugs,
Korin
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Dear Gina,
I am so sorry. I know from personal experience how hard it is to lose a parent. He is with all of his angel friends and family now. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Hugs
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Gina, I'm so sorry for your loss. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sue
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Your father sounds like a very wonderful & talented man - how very Blessed you are to have had such an exceptional father & role model. May all of your happy memories of your dad help get you through this difficult time. God Bless you & your family.
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So sorry to hear of your loss of your dad. May our Savior Jesus be your comfort during this difficult time.
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Gina, My heart goes out to you and your family. God be with you all.
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What a touching tribute you have written to your beloved Dad - thank you for sharing this with us. My deepest condolences to you and your family; he will live on surrounded by love in your hearts!
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Gina and family, I am sorry to hear about your Dad. I can tell from the words you have written (now and in the past) he was a very special person. You will be in my thoughts. I hope you are able to find some comfort with your fond memories of him. -Molly B
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Gina, my heart breaks for you and your family. Your words brought tears to my eyes. I know your father is in a better place. I pray you find peace and comfort in the wonderful memories you have of him. God Bless, Monica
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Oh Gina, there are no words that ever seem adequate in times like these. You and your family are in my prayers. {{{HUGS}}}
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My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Hold close to your heart the memories you have of your dad and smile when you think of them.
Hugs!
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I'm so sorry for your loss.. God Bless you and your family at this time of such sorrow.. hugs, Peggie
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Gina, I am so very sorry for your loss. Your dad looks like such kind, wonderful man. You were lucky to have him for your dad and I am very sure you gave him complete comfort the night before he passed on to heaven. Bless you and your family as you grieve and remember the many good memories.
Linda Peterson
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My deepest sympathy to you and your family. Thoughts and prayers are for you.
I am so sorry.
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Goma.
My condolences to you and your family. Thank you for sharing your Dad with us.
I am so very glad to know that he is in the arms of Jesus. He has begun an eternity of praising God ...
"When we've been there ten thousand years
Bright shining as the sun
We've no less days to sing Gods' praise
Than when we first begun."
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Gina, thank you so much for sharing your life with us. My sympathy and prayers are with you and your family. The nurse is right -- they don't want their loved ones to see them go. My grandmother did the same thing a few years ago. Thank heaven he is with the Lord now.
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Gina I am sorry to hear about your dad's passing but glad that you can visualize him as being young and strong without any handicaps and free of all physical disabilities because he is with our maker and perfect in every way. I am glad you got to lay with him during his last hours on earth and I think you made his heart smile. I know how it feels to loose a parent as my dad passed just before 911. He went suddenly and died while awaiting gall bladder surgery so I had talked with him on the phone the night before and remember our last words were "I love you". I have since built a pond a special place where I can go and have good vibes about him. I picture him as a beautiful butterfly free of all the problems on this earth. When ever I see a butterfly I always think it is his way of telling me he is okay and waiting for the day when we can all be together again. I hope the days ahead are light and easy for you and you remember your dad in every special way but rejoice that he too is free and without the restrictions he once lived with. God bless you and your family.
Debi Pippin
Inverness Florida
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Dear sweet Gina,
I spent my father's last days with him too and he would not let go of life while I was there. He tried so hard to be strong in front of me. He was intubated and still mustered up the ability to talk somedays. I now remember the good times and not seeing him take his last breath was truly a blessing. I think of my dad struggling to get his breath and using every ounce of his strength to beg the nurses for a glass of milk, a hotdog or just to go outside for a minute and I am so grateful that it did not last any longer than it did. I was just in the drive thru on Friday and had to remove my sunglasses to see the gentleman in the truck in front of me more clearly because he seriously looked like my dad. I will always miss my Daddy and I don't know when it will hurt less for you because I am still waiting for that time to come myself. You are in my prayers.
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Gina,
Your dad sounds like he was a wonderful man and I know you are a wonderful daughter to him. I'll keep you and your family in my prayers.
Jen
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Oh Gina you have me in tears reading this. My heart so goes out to you. I can only imagine the heartache of losing a parent and I know that there are no words to make it easier for you. Just know that my thoughts are with you! You will get through this. Remember the good times and keep your thoughts of your Dad with you always!
I agree with the nurse, he was being your Dad even in the end and was protecting you! There is comfort in that!
He is in a much better place now. Death is always harder for those left behind. Big hugs to you and your family.
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Oh, Gina, I'm so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your most touching story with us. I agree with the hospice nurse, that your dad waited until you were gone to pass. You have so many wonderful memories, in your heart and in your home. That is very special. He was lucky to have you and it sounds like you were very lucky to have such a great dad. Your family is in my prayers.
Renee K in Montana
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Gina, my heart goes out to you- your story is so heartwarming- to be able to spend those wonderful moments comforting your Dad as his time to pass grew closer- what a blessing for him to have a wonderful daughter like you! I am so sorry for you loss and hope his memories will comfort you now and in the future.
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Gina, I am so sad to hear this, and I'm sorry for your loss. Atleast you have the peace of mind that he is now with God and no longer unhappy. I wish I could be with you now, to comfort you. You & yours are in my prayers.
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My deepest sympathies are with you and your family. I feel your loss as I remeber you sharing your dad with all of us. My thoughts and prayers are with you. God bless.
Diana
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Dear Gina,
I weep with you for your loss and I rejoyce with you for your dear dad's eternal life. Whenever I feel sad and lonely for my dear dad, I try to remember this:
Those who live in the Lord never see their loved ones for the last time. May this comfort you.
God Bless you and yours.
Love
Sally
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Dear Gina, You have become a long distance friend and thus we share this sorrow with you. I too have lost my Moma and it is not only being there when they die (that is for us ) but you were there as" Daddy's little girl" doing what God wanted you to do to honor your Daddy. Now we have the job of holding his legacy in place for our children. What will they say about us when it is our turn to leave them. Will they know they had grandparents that loved and adored them and delighted in every smile they easily gave? Well I will be praying for you and all your family for the coming days. Don't stop talking about him --Know that we will be here to listen when you just want to talk. What a great community of crafters we have gathered here. God will be there just like he was for your Daddy.He welcomed him home. What a privledge to pray for you.
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So sorry to hear of your lost, i was just devastated when my father passed. my prayers and love are with you
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Gina....my heart goes out to you and your family. I wish you and your family peace and comfort. My thoughts and prayers are with you all right now.
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I am so sorry for your loss Gina. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. Like you said,he is no longer suffering and is with his loved ones up above and you now have one more angel watching over you.
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Gina,
Your words brought tears to my eyes. You and your family are in my prayers. May the Lord bless and comfort you during this difficult time.
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Dear Gina,
I am so sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. I know that all the wonderful memories you have of him will sustain you during this sad time. Remember, those we love are NEVER forgotten
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Gina, I know that no matter how expected it is, losing a loved one is so very painful. My heart goes out to you and your family. It takes a long time to heal and there is nothing you can do but let yourself heal.
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So sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you and your family.
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Gina, I'm so sorry to read about your loss. Dads are pretty special people, and in reading what you have written about your Dad he was one of the best. I believe the Hospice Nurse told you the truth; don't feel badly that you weren't there with him in his final moments...that IS what he wanted. How special that you spent the night comforting him ~ he knew that you were there
May God keep you and your family in his loving care in the days and weeks to follow. Gayle
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Thank you for sharing the lovely tribute to your Dad. Sorry for your loss.
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Prayers and hugs to you, Gina and your family. Never think that your dad was cut off from all that he loved. I believe he always knew how much his family cared for and loved him and he knew it when he was called home. A beautiful love like the one you had for him never goes away and will come to give you comfort always. Love to you and yours.
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My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.
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I am so very sorry for your loss... Hold tight to your loved ones at this time...
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Gina, I am so very sorry for your loss. I am praying for you and the family. Love & big hugs!!
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You're in my thoughts and prayers.
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Gina,
I'm so sorry for the loss of your Dad. I'm sure the nurse was right, he didn't want you to see him pass away. You have a lovely tribute to your Dad. What an interesting man! I hope you find comfort during this time of sorrow. Many hugs to you and your family.
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Hi Gina,
Been where you are at 3 times and know the pain and hurt but also the joy in knowing that they are in a better place with no more suffering or hard times. We will pray for all of you at this time and thanks for your wonderful testimony to our Lord and Saviour.
Angel Hugs to you.
Love,
Jane & Dick
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Gina I am sorry to hear about your dad's passing but glad that you can visualize him as being young and strong without any handicaps and free of all physical disabilities because he is with our maker and perfect in every way. I am glad you got to lay with him during his last hours on earth and I think you made his heart smile. I know how it feels to loose a parent as my dad passed just before 911. He went suddenly and died while awaiting gall bladder surgery so I had talked with him on the phone the night before and remember our last words were "I love you". I have since built a pond a special place where I can go and have good vibes about him. I picture him as a beautiful butterfly free of all the problems on this earth. When ever I see a butterfly I always think it is his way of telling me he is okay and waiting for the day when we can all be together again. I hope the days ahead are light and easy for you and you remember your dad in every special way but rejoice that he too is free and without the restrictions he once lived with. God bless you and your family.
Debi Pippin
Inverness Florida
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My heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. My mother did the same thing for me, waited until I left before she passed away. Her final sacrifice to us. Your dad sounded like a wonderful person and I know the memories will last forever.
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Gina, You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Being very close to my dad, I can think of no good words of comfort other than that I care.
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Hello Gina, as I sit hear reading your stories about your dad,I can't hold back the tear,I to just lost my mom Nov 4 to cancer as well.Her birthday was yesterday so I do know what you are going throught right now. So sorry for your lost.
Deborah
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Dear dear Gina, Tears are still in my eyes from reading your post today - I am so sorry for your loss! It sounds like your dad was a wonderful man and that her cherished your love & comfort throughout his life. I hope that you can find solace in that knowledge. My thoughts & prayers are with you during this difficult time!
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Condolences to you and your family. Your dad will always be in your heart.
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I am sorry for the loss your family has experienced, but your right he is in the loving arms of Christ. My prayer is for God to comfort those of you left behind.
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Dear Gina, I will be praying for your family. Today is the one year anniversary of my father-in-law's homegoing, so I feel like I am mourning along with you. What a great hope to know we will see them again one day!
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Gina, I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart, prayers, and hugs go out to you and your family. My Mom passed in August and I now know what others go through when they lose a parent. Your Dad is smiling down on you and your children. I know that does not help take away the pain right now. We go through so many emotions in such a short period of time. It is important to take time (over a period of time) to feel your feelings..no matter what they are. I have gone the full circle..loss, despair, joy at Mom being with Jesus, missing sending her funny animal emails and holding her hand, Happiness at the thought that I WILL see her again, and the wonderful picture in my mind that she is now so very happy that she can dance and twirl and meet and greet people as they enter Heaven. My Mom hung on to see me and she was trying to be so strong in her final weeks. The morning that we knew was to be her last, we knew she did not want to leave when we were with her. Her nurse asked for us to leave the room and it was then that Mom died. Once a Mom, always a Mom.. protecting her "young" ones. It may also be that your Dad was just watching out for his little girl and know that you were in his heart to the end of his days on earth and will be all his days in heaven. I pray for comfort for you and know that we all love you. Janet in NC
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Gina, what a loving tribute to your dad...you must have been very close. I am glad his suffering is over and I hope memories of happier times will comfort you. I am going through a tough time with my own mother who has ALS and now dementia...reading about your pain brought tears to my eyes. God bless!
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Sorry to hear about your daddy and certainly am praying for you and your family. He can see and laugh now!!! What a wonderful thought!
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Gina, I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart, prayers, and hugs go out to you and your family. My Mom passed in August and I now know what others go through when they lose a parent. Your Dad is smiling down on you and your children. I know that does not help take away the pain right now. We go through so many emotions in such a short period of time. It is important to take time (over a period of time) to feel your feelings..no matter what they are. I have gone the full circle..loss, despair, joy at Mom being with Jesus, missing sending her funny animal emails and holding her hand, Happiness at the thought that I WILL see her again, and the wonderful picture in my mind that she is now so very happy that she can dance and twirl and meet and greet people as they enter Heaven. My Mom hung on to see me and she was trying to be so strong in her final weeks. The morning that we knew was to be her last, we knew she did not want to leave when we were with her. Her nurse asked for us to leave the room and it was then that Mom died. Once a Mom, always a Mom.. protecting her "young" ones. It may also be that your Dad was just watching out for his little girl and know that you were in his heart to the end of his days on earth and will be all his days in heaven. I pray for comfort for you and know that we all love you. Janet in NC
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Oh Gina! My thoughts and prayers are with you and great big hugs to you all! Sounds like you have great memories of him that will be treasured throughout the years! I am sure that he was met at the pearly Gates with a great big hug and is being very well taken care of, from the sounds of it he was ready to go, but held on for his family. Don't forget that he will always be with you!! Love and Hugs!!
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so sorry for your loss! my condolences go out to you and your family!!
karen adams
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Gina, I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your father. I'm weeping as I think of how your heart is aching right now. Thank goodness for all of your wonderful memories and the comfort in knowing he is at peace now. <<>> to you and your family
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Oh hon, I'm so very sorry for your loss. Nothing cuts to the heart like loosing a parent, and I will keep you and your family in my prayers. We are always our daddy's little girls and age never changes that. I'm so pleased that you had the time with your Dad before he headed for a better place. In the years to come, that will bring you comfort. Big hugs to you sweetie.
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So sorry to hear about your dad. I also lost my father 3 years ago. I miss him so, but like your father, he is now in heaven celebrating and worshiping our Lord. His funeral was the most wonderful service I have attended. My two brothers are ministers and my sister a missionary. We planned a worship service that talked about the legacy dad left his children, grandchildren, friends and family. It was hard to do because we all participated in the service, but one that I know dad loved as he was looking down at us from heaven. I pray that you will find peace and comfort through the days ahead as you learn to deal with this loss. And will always remember the legacy that your father left you.
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Gina, I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine the pain you feel. But hang on to the hope we share in our Savior. God is good all the time, even when we hurt. Especially when we hurt. You and your family are in my prayers. Cathy
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Gina, my heart breaks for you and your family. I love my father with all my heart, and I can't imagine the depth of your loss. Hugs to you and yours.
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Gina I'm so sorry for your loss. Reading your post brought back memories of when my dad died, like your father we were all at the hospital for days & on the night the nurses sent us home to get some rest thats when my dad passed at 2 am about 2 hours after we left him. It is true that they hold on for us & don't want us to see them go because of the hurt it causes us. He will still live in your heart forever. My thoughts & prayers are with you & your family.
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Dad's are so special. My Dad was also born in 1919 and is currently living in an assisted/Alzheimer's home. He has 4 daughters of which I am the youngest. I can only imagine how much we'll miss him once he's gone as he has been the greatest Dad a girl could possibly have. And you're right, I believe he is with family that has gone on before him. He is happy and I know you will be too but it will take some time. God Bless you.
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Dear Gina and Family. I read your story and it touched my heart deeply. How beautiful your words describing the final hours. It touched my heart. I lost my parents very young so I do know somewhat how you feel/ you said it so beatifully and you will be a rock for your family. My family will keep you and yours in our thoughts and prayers.
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OH GINA - I Am so very sorry for your loss. I am sure that Heaven is just a wee bit brighter with the shining light of your father's presence! I love your analogy of him now being able to see - God surely embraced him with open arms!
Peace to your and your family - your suffering will be comforted by knowing that thousands of us are praying for you!
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Oh Gina...I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Dad's are so special. My Dad was also born in 1919 and is currently living in an assisted/Alzheimer's home. He has 4 daughters of which I am the youngest. I can only imagine how much we'll miss him once he's gone as he has been the greatest Dad a girl could possibly have. And you're right, I believe he is with family that has gone on before him. He is happy and I know you will be too but it will take some time. God Bless you and my condolences to your family.
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Oh, Gina...
I am so sorry to hear of your loss, but your dear dad will not suffer anymore, and it sounds like he had wonderful fullfilling life and was a wonderful dad to you. You were there when he needed you and I'm sure that was very special for him. Now you have your fond memories and may those help you and your family through this.
Hugs,
Val
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Gina,
I'm so sorry for your loss - you and your family are in my prayers.
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Words never seem to be enough at times like this....so I hope you can feel the peace and hugs and light being delivered to you and your familiy right this second. I know and feel your pain since I have been there...time will ease this heartache.
With my hugs,
Tina Suzan
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Oh, Gina. I know how you feel. My daddy died of cancer when I was 8. No more hospital bed, no more pain. Our daddies are walking in Heaven having wonderful reunions! Praise the Lord! I can't wait to do the same! Can you?
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{{{Gina}}} I'm sorry for your sadness over your dad's passing. I know the thought of him healed and waiting for you in Heaven will help soothe your heart. My prayers are with your family as you grieve.
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Oh Gina. My heart aches for you and your family right now. I pray that you and your family find peace in our Great Comforter above. And you are right, your dad no longer feels any aches and pains and sorrows. He has been made new and is now with Jesus. Lots of hugs to you. Melissa
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Gina,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time. I love this poem--
In Loving Memory Of Your Dad
God looked around his garden,
And saw an empty space.
Then he looked down here on earth,
And saw your loving face.
He put his arms around you,
And lifted you to rest.
His garden must be beautiful,
Because he only picks the best
A million times we’ll miss you,
A million times we’ll cry.
If love could have saved you,
You never would have died.
In life we loved you dearly,
In death we love you still.
In our hearts you hold a special place,
No one could ever fill
It broke our hearts to lose you,
But you did not go alone,
For part of us went with you,
The day God took you home.
~Author Unknown~
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Gina, I'm very sorry. Your dad sounds like he was an amazing, special man that led an wonderful life. It sounds like you had many special moments with him. I'm glad you'll always have those to remember.
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Gina I am so sorry for your loss. I can't even begin to understand the pain you are feeling right now, but know that you are in my thoughts during the difficult time.
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Gina, I am so sorry for your dad's passing from this earth, but so very glad you know where he is and that he is whole again....so glad for that comfort for you. You will be in my prayers....Dianne
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I'm sure your father was so proud of you Gina, how could it be any other way. You have become a very strong, caring, loving woman. Any father would be proud to have you as a daughter. Knowing that you cared for him in the same way. Just staying with him made him feel comfortable in going - he knew he had done his job. My deepest sympathies to you and your family, Gina.
Thinking of you, Kathy
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You are lucky to have had a dad that you can say such wonderful things about. He sounds like a truly great man. Hugs to you and your family as you go through this trying time together.
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My heart goes out to you and your family. I lost my mother to pancreatic cancer - we cared for her at home with the help of Angels on earth - the hospice nurses. She was in such terrible pain that her death was a wonderful release for all of us, but the hole that it left hurts so terribly. A friend of mine told me it is like a hole in a sock that needs to be darned. Gradually, you begin to throw threads across the hole, filling in with more strands as everyday life resumes its rhythms. With time, the terrible hole is gone, and the sock serves its function, but you are ALWAYS aware of the darn. It has been two years now and my darn is pretty snug, but I am always always aware. God Bless you and your family during this terrible time. I will be praying for you to find comfort and healing.
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Dear Gina,
I am so saddened to hear of the loss of your dad. While I really don't know how you feel, I've been there and it isn't easy. I've known that pain. Your family is in my prayers. A wise man once wrote, "...it is only when we take the love out of life that we take the sorrow out of death..." I, like you, know that your sweet father is in a glorious place and with those who have gone before him.
My love to you and yours,
Chris
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My heart goes out to you and your family. I lost my mother to pancreatic cancer - we cared for her at home with the help of Angels on earth - the hospice nurses. She was in such terrible pain that her death was a wonderful release for all of us, but the hole that it left hurts so terribly. A friend of mine told me it is like a hole in a sock that needs to be darned. Gradually, you begin to throw threads across the hole, filling in with more strands as everyday life resumes its rhythms. With time, the terrible hole is gone, and the sock serves its function, but you are ALWAYS aware of the darn. It has been two years now and my darn is pretty snug, but I am always always aware. God Bless you and your family during this terrible time. I will be praying for you to find comfort and healing.
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Gina, I am so sorry for your loss. May the God of all comfort supply you and your family richly.
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So sorry for your loss and happy for heaven's gain. My daddy died last October and I know the pain you are feeling. You and your family will be in my prayers as you deal with the loss and all that goes with it.
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Gina, I am so sorry for your loss! You and your family are in my prayers! Big hugs!
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Dear Gina and family
I am so sorry for your loss. I know how hard it is to loose a parent having lost both. I will remember you in my thoughts and prayers. Treasure the moments you shared together. How wonderful that you were able to spend those hours with him and assure him of your love.
Hugs
Darlene
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Gina, the Hospice nurses were right when they said your Dad didn't want to pass away while you were there. I hear it more and more. My mother-in-law passed away last month, minutes after her 4 children left her room. He is at peace now.
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Gina, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this very difficult time. May knowing that he is at peace comfort you.
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Gina, I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.
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My heart breaks for you and you are in my prayers. May you truly find comfort in knowing your father is with our Lord and Saviour and is finally healed.
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Oh Gina ... My prayers and (((hugs))) are with all of you. From one Daddy's girl to another ... I believe his nurse's words to you are true. Hold onto his beautiful smile and love in your heart. Sweet (((hugs))) and prayers for you.
~Tex
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Gina,
Your family is in our prayers. I was sobbing reading this story, it was so familiar to what my Grandma went through with blindness and cancer. We don't want to let go but we also don't want to see them suffer. Know he is with you and take comfort in his love. We are all here for you...
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Gina,
I'm so sorry for your loss. Find comfort in knowing he is with Jesus now. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. Please be gentle with yourself.
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Gina, I am so very sorry for the loss of your dad. Dad's and daughters seem to have that special bond like no other. I believe that Hospice nurses are angels on earth and have a very special place in heaven set aside for them. You dad is now free from all his physical burdens and at peace in the arms of those waiting for him. Having that last special night with your dad will be in your heart forever. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very sad time.
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What a beautiful tribute, Gina. You, your family, and your father are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Gina, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I lost my father almost three years ago, less than a year after losing my mom. I know the pain you experience and yet the joy that your loved one is whole again and happy with Christ. I pray God's peace and strength for you during these difficult days. Tracy in Michigan, crazyforsu@aol.com
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Gina,
My heart goes out to you and your family. I am so sorry to hear this news, but you can find strength in that your dad is a greater place. You are certainly in my prayers and I wish you the best as you go through this time.
Lori
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Gina, I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my father when I was a girl, so I can imagine the pain you are going through. Please know that you and your family are in my prayers today.
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Gina, May God give you peace in the days ahead. Your Dad sounded like a wonderful man! I am so happy that he is in the arms of Christ. What a blessing!
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Gina, I feel for you and your family. It's always hard to lose someone you love, even if you know they are better off. Hugs and prayers.
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Gina, My deepest sympathies to you for the loss of your precious father. How blessed are you to have loved him & to have been able to tell him so. You were able to give him love and joy at the end. He knew that you were there with him. One day you will see him once again. May God grant you comfort & peace. Prayers are being said for you & your family. Hugs!
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Gina, my heart is breaking for you. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers!
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Oh Gina,
I'm so very sorry to hear of your loss. May peace find you quickly. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sherry G.
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Dear Gina,
I'm so sorry that you and your family have lost your Dad. Your description of his new, strong, pain-free body is exactly what I try to remember when I think of loved ones I've lost. What a fabulous gift God gave you - a loving Father, and another gift is the assurance that he is in Heaven, happy and healthy (and probably already working on a new lamp!)
A year ago my mother was in hospice care and passed away, just moments after I had left her bedside. The hospice nurses (yes, they're angels!) told me this is very commmon. Your dad was at peace, knowing that you loved him and that you had been there with him.
Love and hugs to you and your family,
Jan M.
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Gina, What a wonderful tribute to your dad. Your post brought tears to my eyes and I felt your sorrow. Know that you and your family are in our prayers. Your dad has gone to a wonderful place and will be waiting for all he left behind. God Bless you and your family.
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I'm so sorry for your loss Gina. Heartfelt sympathy to you and your family.
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Oh, Gina, I am so sorry to hear about your father. What a beautiful tribute you were able to share with all of us; thank you! I will be praying for you and the rest of your family...
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Gina, I am so sorry to hear about your father. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family and may the love of those around you help you through the days ahead. Jovi
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Dear Gina,
I am so sorry for your loss.I know how wonderful it is to be your Daddy's little girl, and the closeness you have shared with each other. May God bless you and may you continually feel your Dad's presence and love with you each and every day, until you meet again.
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Gina I am sorry for your loss. I want to send you my sincere sympathy and pray that you and your family find peace and comfort in the love around you and God.
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Gina, I am so sorry to hear about your dad. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family and may the love of those around you help you through the days ahead. Jovi
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Gina- I'm so sorry to hear about your father. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time. I do have to tell you that what the hospice nurse said is true. Most don't want to die in front of their loved ones. In fact, the same thing happened with my Grandfather. My Mom and Grandmother didn't want to leave his side, but without even realizing it, my Grandma walked out to get a drink and my Mom went to make a phone call. In those few minutes my Grandfather passed on. Its truly amazing how things like that can work. Thank you for sharing your story and allowing me to share mine with you! May God bless you and watch over you during this difficult time.
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I am so sorry for your loss.
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My deepest sympathy goes to you o the loss of your Dad but it sounds like you have wonderful memories of him Cherish these.I lost my dad when I lived overseas and couldn't be with him how I would have loved the chance to hold him as you dis That was 28 years ago I was only 29 he 63 far to youngand I miss him every day.Hugs to your family
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Keep the good memories in your heart and he will never be far away. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Lynne
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Gina, I am so sorry to hear of your loss, but am comforted that you will be able to see your dad again some day and know that he is now dancing in heaven.
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Gina, I am sorry for your family's loss. It is obvious by your posts the love you had for your father. I have lifted you and your family up to our Heavenly Father in prayer and pray that the angels of peace and comfort wrap their arms around you.
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I have not been reading your blog for long and did not know your daddy was so sick. I am so sorry for your (and your entire family's) loss. It is wonderful to read, however, that you know he is safe and happy in our Savior's arms. Prayers are going up to be comforted in His love.
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Dearest Gina,
I feel like I know you personally, just by visiting your blog on a daily basis. That is how you make us feel by you kind and caring ways. It makes my heart sad to hear of your loss this day. Thank you for sharing your thougths with us. I look forward to a day when there will be no more sickness nor pain, no more sadness nor heartache; a day when we will be safe in the arms of Jesus. I'm glad that your Dad's suffering and sadness is over. I'm thankfull that you have wonderful memories, and your Dad will always be a part of who you are, and will remain in your heart always. May God Bless you and your family in the days ahead, I will be praying for your comfort and peace.
Love,
Marge
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I'm really sorry for your lost. I agree with the nurse, I'm sure that people that fight a long time against an illness can choose when they go. I'll be praying for you and your family. (((((HUG)))))
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I am sorry for your loss.
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Oh, Gina, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. It sound as though your father was a wonderful man. May you find comfort knowing that he isn't suffering anymore. And don't feel bad about not being there when he left--that nurse was right.
Thank you for sharing your story with all of us. You and your family will be in my thoughts.
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So sorry for your loss. He sounds like an amazing man!
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My heart goes out to you in your loss. What a blessing it must be to have been cherished by such a wonderful father. May the Lord reach out to comfort you and remind you of all of the love you felt in the arms of your daddy.
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Oh Gina... my heart breaks for you! I can barely see to type this thru my tears! I lost my Dad (will be 10 years ago on April 30th) and it's still hard to think about. I know how hard it is and I know you'll hear this 100 times, but time really does heal. No, the pain never goes away, but all the wonderful memories, things you had maybe forgotten about, will start to fill your thoughts, more and more and soon, you'll find yourself smiling when you think of your Dad instead of crying! It sounds like your Dad was an amazing man and he will be missed greatly by a lot of people. Keep your memories alive, share stories about him with your children and remember how very much you were loved. You're going to hear this a lot too, but you and your family will be in my prayers, and there is so much power in prayer! As hard as losing someone is, try to find comfort in what you said. Now he can see and hear... he's young and with friends and loved ones who have passed on before him and he will ALWAYS be watching over you! God Bless you and your family and may He give you comfort during this hard time and fill you full of precious memories!
{{{{ Hugs }}}}
Debi aka: SassiAngel
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So sorry for your loss. Your dad was truly blessed to have a caring, loving daughter like you. As a hospice pharmacist, I have seen people wait for a loved one to arrive and also for a loved one to leave. He knows how much you love him and that will never change. He is rejoicing right now over his richly blessed life. You and your family will be in my prayers.
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I watched both my parents and my husband (after a 4 month battle with cancer) leave this world. Although I'm glad I was with them, I'll never forget those moments. I agree that your dad wanted to spare you that memory. Praying that God will wrap you in His loving and comforting embrace.
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Oh, Gina, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones.
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Sorry to read of your loss. May you be comforted that your Dad is now in a much happier place. *hugs*
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Gina,
so sorry to hear of your loss, like you said what a wonderful time he is having now, that is all that could give me comfort after my mom suffered after having her strokes, knowing they are with our Lord and free from pain, is something to celebrate. Wishing you God's peace.
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Gina, I am so sorry to read of your loss, having lost my own father just 3 weeks ago I know a little about how you must be feeling. He is in a better place.
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Dearest Gina, I am so sorry for your loss. Your family will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. I know your Dad is in heaven looking down and smiling on you. You continue his crafting thru your work daily. I've never met you or him, but I know in my heart that his is very proud of you.
Take care of yourself.
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My sincerest condolences on the loss of your father, he sounds like an amazing man. I lost my father when I was only 3 so I don't remember him. I am glad you were able to spend time with him at the end, I wish I could have said good bye to my own father.
God Bless
Monique
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Gina - God bless you and your family - May your dad find the peace and happiness he deserves.
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You are so fortunate to know God and trust him...rejoice in your father..you
know how lucky you are to have such a good one...my love and prayers to you and all your family...
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Gina, I am so sorry to read of your loss, having lost my own father just three weeks ago I know a little of how you must be feeling. My heart goes out to you and your family. Be assured that dad is in a better place.
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Gina -
I am so very sorry to hear about your Dad's passing. I know your mother must be devasted at losing the love of her life. And you my dear, what a very special daughter you are. You must have given him so much comfort in his last hours, I agree with the Hospice nurse, your Dad did not want you to witness his passing. Remember him with love, with pride, see him in the eyes and the laughter of your children. Know that he is always with you and always will be. God Bless all of you and may the happy memories you shared help to ease the sorrow of his loss just a little bit.
Sincerely, Elaine Allen
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What a beautiful tribute to your dad. Cling to those positive memories that you have of him. May God's comfort and peace be with you and your entire family.
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My heart goes out to you and your family. Know that you are in my prayers and may God give you the strength you need to continue to be a comfort to your family.
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Gina, please know that you and your family are and will be in my thoughts and prayers. I know you will miss him very much, but what a wonderful place to be, in the arms of our Savior, Jesus. Take gentle care of yourselves.
Love, {{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}, & Prayers,
Jesse aka Inkyhive
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Hi Gina,
I would to express my heartfelt sympathy to you and your family for the loss of your Daddy. May he rest in peace.
Mary
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Gina -- you and your entire family are in my thoughts and prayers. I lost my mom 3 weeks ago and I know how much it hurts, but he is in a better place and you'll see him again, wtih eyes bright and ears to hear every word you whisper to him. {{{{{hugs}}}}
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I am so sorry for your loss. We just lost my dad 3 days before Christmas. I know how hard this must be for you. My prayers are with you and your family.
Take care
Susan
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Dear Gina, I am very sorry to read about the loss of your father. You wrote so beautifully about him. My thoughts are with you and yours, take care.
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Oh Gina... I am so sorry to hear about your loss... what a wonderful tribute to your Dad. Thank you for sharing his wonderful story.
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You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Your dad's spirit lives on, and he will be watching over you forever, smiling and proud. HUGS to you, and may the memories you have of your time comfort you. HUGS...HUGS...HUGS!
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What a loving tribute to your beloved father. Your words demonstate the family pride he shared with your entire family and know that those memories will last in your mind and heart forever. My prayers go out to you and all of your family.
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I send my condolences to you and your family through the tears from reading your post. I am so glad you were able to spend the last day with your dad. He knew you were there.
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Dear Sweet Gina,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I am sure it is bittersweet knowing he is no longer suffering but now you are without him. You are an amazing woman which I am sure your father helped you to become and was surely very proud of you! He must have been an amazing man to raise such an amazingly talented, caring compassionate woman as yourself! My thoughts are with you and your family!
Tessa
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Gina
So sorry to hear about your lost, but as you said you can comfort knowing your father suffers no longer, he can hear and see once again. You and your family are in my prayers.
May God comfort and bless you during this sad time.
Phyllis
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Hi Gina,
I am so very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Take care.
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Gina,
I am very sorry to hear of your Father's passing. He is with God now keeping watch over you and your family. I will remember you all in my prayers tonight.
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What a lovely tribute to a very special man who raised you to become the caring, supportive,thoughtful person you are. The treasured memories spent with him will live in your heart and mind always. You and your entire family are in my prayers.
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Gina, I am very sorry to hear your sad news.
Time will bring comfort and acceptance to you and your family; but your Dad will always be with you in your hearts and memories. He'll always be there so long as you talk about him and keep his memory alive...
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Gina,
I am so sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
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Gina,
I'm so sorry for your loss. Please know that you and your family will be in my thoughts.
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I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers will be with you and your family at this time.
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I am so sorry for your loss,My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
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Oh Gina. I'm so sorry for your family's loss. Your father sounds so amazing, and I'm so glad you got to have the time you did with him, and that you were with him in his last hours. I pray for your peace, as I know he's gone on to a much better place with our Lord and Savior. Thank you for sharing. Be strong.
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Oh Gina! My thought and prayers are with you and your family. I feel an overwhelming sadness and heaviness of heart for you. May God give you comfort like only He can. Much love with deepest sympathy and sincerity.
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Oh Gina, I am so sorry for your loss, but I too am thankful that your father can rest in peace now. Hearing about what you have shared about your dad explains why you have turned out to be such a special person! The apple does not fall far from the tree! Thanks for sharing even the intimate parts of your life with us. My heart hurts for your loss, and I pray for comfort to find you! God Bless you!
Kelly
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Oh Gina, I'm so sorry for your loss but I'm overjoyed to know that you will see him again in heaven. Rest in His peace.
{{Hugs}}
Marcie
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Gina...I am so sorry. I know that nurse is right. The same thing happened to my dad and me. We had stayed all day and he told us to go home and have Christmas (eve) we had just finished(not caring too much about it) and the phone call came that he had died.
Much sympathy to you and your family at this time.
Love Jules
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Oh Gina, I am so sorry for your loss. Your post shows how very much you loved him. He sounds like he was such an amazing father and man. ((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))
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Gina I lost my dad a little over a year ago. I feel your pain and will be praying for you and your family.
Hugs and Prayers,
R'Robin Scianna
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Gina, You will be in my prayers! Lean on the Lord for support.
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Gina - Although we know each other by words in cyberspace, my heart goes out to you and your family.
The hospice nurse was right on the money with her words.
What earth has lost, Heaven has gained.
With Regards, Lori
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Gina, my heart goes out to you and I will say a prayer for you and your family. How wonderful to have the sweet assurance that your Dad is resting in the arms of our Savior and to know that one day you will again see his smiling face and feel his loving arms enfold you. My Christ give you peace and comfort during the days to come.
Hugs,
Judi Harvey
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My deepest sympathies to you and your family. It's such a difficult time for you all, but may you take comfort in knowing that your Dad is now at peace.
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Gina, I'm so sorry for the loss of your Dad. He is now with our Heavenly Father & as you said seeing & hearing everyone. You & your family will be sad & grieving but you can rejoice that he is with Jesus now. My prayers will be with you.
Hugs, Lynn
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Thanks for sharing so that we can remember you in our thoughts and prayers at this time. It sounds like your dad lived a full, wonderful life! There is rejoicing in heaven! May God comfort you and your family at this time!
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I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your father. Words are just not enough, but know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Gina, sorry to hear your father has gone home to be with the Father...but as you stated....he is healed.
May God provide all the comfort and peace in this time of loss.
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I had tears of sadness when I read this tribute to your dad...I've been there and I know how hard it is. When my brother was in the nursing home, I used to tell him "wait for me so I can be with you when you go to heaven" He died 3 minutes before I walked in the door. He was like my child, he had Down Syndrome and could not talk. I went to see him every day for 4 years and it killed my mentally for him to be gone...but then I remembered I was being selfish and he was in a better place...I wish you the same kind of recovery...Prayers are coming your way from me.
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Gina, I am so sorry about your dad's passing. It sounds like you had a wonderful relationship with your dad.
I lost my dad 16 years ago at the age of 68 which is way too young. Time heals and you will never forget him as he surely will be missed by you and your family. May god bless you during this sad time...Hugs, Barb
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Gina, I am so sorry about the loss of your Dad. I rejoice with you that he is in the arms of Jesus and pray that God will comfort your family in the way only He can. Your Dad sounds like a wonderful man who touched many people in his lifetime. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
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My sincere condolences...Your Dad sounds like he was a wonderful man. Thinking of you and your family during this difficult time.
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Dear Gina.
I am so sorry for the sad loss of your Dad. My thoughts and Prayers are with you and your Family.
God Bless.
Love Angie..xx..
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Oh Gina, this is a beautiful post. I am so sorry for your loss. You are a wise woman with an obviously beautiful heart and soul. God bless all of you now and always.
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Gina, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your dad. He is now able to see and hear again, able to hear the beauty of heaven and see it. No longer in pain and can now rest his head on God's shoulder.
Hugs and prayers to you my friend for the strength to except this. Remember the good times and feel comfort in them.
Angel hugs
Debby
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Hugs and prayers from Ireland - I imagine I know how you feel - I lost my dad in the same way 6 years ago now and the circumstances were so similar that I'm welling up reading your post. God will bless and keep you no doubt as He will your Dad, who can look down and be very, very proud.
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Gina...my sweet Gina. I am sorry for your loss. Your words show such strength and made me cry. I am thinking and praying for you during this time. Hugs. If there is anything I can do for you please let me know.
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May God's love surround you during this difficult time.
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So sorry for your loss.. Memories of his love for his craft are a great way to remember the good times you got to spend with him...
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Your comments on your father`s passing are beautiful. You know he is now at piece with all faculties fully functioning. Blessed are those who loved and were loved by him.
Hugs
Heather
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Gina,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. May the Lord wrap His loving arms around you and your family and comfort you in this time of need. My deepest sympathy, Kelly
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Gina,
I am so sorry about the loss of your father, and hope that you know that I am thinking of you. I am struck by your positive outlook, and I think you are quite an amazing person.
Connie K.
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Gina, my heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. My own father is in very bad health right now and I live with the fear that when I leave it may be the last time I see him. God Bless you all.
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Hi Gina,
I am very sorry to hear of your Father's passing. I'm sending my condolences to you and your family. Now he's free of suffering. I hope you'll find all the comfort you need to go through all that!
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my sincerest sympathies and lots of prayers to you and your family at this difficult and sad time. hugs to all..
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Gina,
I am so saddened to hear of your loss. You will be in my thoughts and my prayers. Wow, to be so lucky to live 90 years with your wife and children, one day i hope to be so lucky. They say that life goes faster then you think and now that he is with our Heavenly Father, maybe that is true, but look at all the great moments that you had. And that great photo of him with the kids, how special. I will be praying for your mother, I can't imagine the grief and longing, but I hope that she and your family are comforted by God's grace and knowing that your father is in Heaven watching over you know.
God Bless you!
The Washington Family
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I am so sorry to hear about your Dad's passing. You were so blessed to be able to spend the night with him and be with him almost to the end. My mom died when I was 9. She had been in the hospital for 2 weeks before she died and back then I couldn't see her because I was under 12. I am so glad that you got so many wonderful years with your dad. He is happy now with Jesus. You will see him again some day. I am blessed to have a dad like that, too. He was there for me after my Mom died. You can find solace in knowing that he loved you very much. I believe the nurse was right about him not wanting to upset you. I pray that the next few days will go as well as can be expected for you and your family.
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Dear, sweet Gina,
Thank you so much for sharing your Father with us. It is very difficult for us as humans to accept the loss of our loved ones earthly bodies. But as you stated, he is now in a much better place where he can see and hear and there will be a day in the future (hopefully very far in the future) when you will rejoin him and you two can relive all the beautiful moments you shared.
I also have a similar story regarding my beloved Mother! In this case it was my Father who had spent hours with her (begging her not to leave him). He finally decided that he would have enough time to go and get something to eat (right there at the hospital). While he was gone my Mother left this mortal earth and went to be with her loved ones from the past.
Luckily, each of us children (my brother, sister and I) were able to see her before she left us. We were all able to tell her we loved her and that it was okay for her to leave her pain and trials behind to go live with her Heavenly Father.
I am touched by your sweet story of your dear Father and pray for you to have all the beautiful memories of your days with your him (as I am sure you have scrapbooked them) to enjoy for the rest of your life. Our mortal bodies are not infinite, but our spiritual bodies will last forever and we will share eternity with all those we love again someday. I sorrow for you, but am very happy to know your Father will no longer suffer and he will be watching over you from above. Thank you for being such a beautiful person and for sharing this special occasion with us.
My prayers are with you today.
Deanna Collins
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My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
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My prayers are with your family Gina. {{{{Hugs}}}}}
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Gina, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers and in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful words and your wonderful father with us. (((hugs))) and much love.
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Gina,
I hope God surrounds you with His gentle peace and sweet love. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Janet
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Gina, I'm so very sorry to hear of the passing of your father. He is in great hands now and suffers no more. God bless you and your family through this rough time.
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Oh Gina I am so sorry for your loss
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Gina, I had to go away for a few hours before I could post. Words feel so inadequate, but I wanted you to know how sorry I am for your loss. I lost my mom a few years ago, and it's hard. Hard. Luckily, I know she's in heaven, that brings such peace, I know you know that about your dad as well.
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Gina, I am so sorry for your loss. I've yet to expierience the exact feeling of this loss, although I had a close call and know I don't want to go through that again. We know that our Father is there for all your family, he will keep you in his loving arms.
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Gina, I am so sorry for your loss! Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers! Big hugs to you!
-Bev
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Gina,
I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my mom when I was 13 and I know it is a very difficult time. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
Hugs to you
Giovana
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Gina...I am sending all the love and hugs I can muster. We lots my Pops 6 years ago and some days it feels like so long ago, then there are days that it feels like yesterday. He, too, suffered the final years of his life. He was the artist and woodcrafter in the family. He missed puttering in his garage. Yes, they do wait to pass away. My Pops hung on until he got to see all 3 grandchildren. Mine was the last to see him and that day he actually ate something, first time in 3 days, so we knew it was getting real close. My grandmother, his mother, did the same thing. It's like their last gift to us. God bless you and your family, He and your father will be watching over you.
Love...Patty
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Gina I am so sorry for your loss. Your Dad sounds like a wonderful man and Father.
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Gina, I am so very sorry for your loss. I pray for peace and comfort for you in the days ahead. HUGS to you. I hope you can feel my arms around you. I am shedding tears of sorrow with you. Know that you have LOTS and LOTS of friends here on the web to comfort you, listen when you need an ear and offer you hugs as well. You and your family are in my prayers.
Love and hugs, Patty
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Gina, I am so sorry for your loss. I know it is hard to lose a parent, but as you said, his eyes are opened now and he is with loved ones. May you find comfort and peace in knowing that. Sending you hugs and prayers.
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Gina, Thank you for sharing that beautiful tribute with us! You and your family are in my thoughts today!
-Krystie
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Gina ~ I am so sorry for your loss. I can only imagine the sorrow you must feel with the loss of a parent that was so dear to you. In reading your words it sounds like your father was a wonderful person and will be greatly missed by all. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your sweet family. Hugs, Angi
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Gina, I'm so sorry. I've lost my father also and know the pain and emptiness you're feeling. God bless you and your family with much faith and strength in the coming months.
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Gina, your words of your father's passing touched me and I am sorry to hear of your loss. I pray comfort and peace to be with you and your family. Many hugs, Jackie
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Gina, I too echo the words that I am so sorry for your loss. Please pass these loving thoughts, words and our continued prayers to your mom also. With sincere sympathies--Barb
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Gina, I am so sorry for your loss. I know when my Dad passed the feeling of sorrow and helplessness, but like you I knew he was healed and in a much better place. I was also think the nurse was right and he cared so much for you that he waited. Keep his love and memory in your heart and let it help get you through the coming days.(((hugs)))
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I'm so sorry for your loss. You have wonderful memories of your dad, but I know personally how hard it is to lose your father! Time and those loving memories will help ease the pain you now feel.
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I am so sorry for your loss. It sounds like Your Dad was a very special man.
I felt a great sadness in reading your blog entry. It brought me back to when my Dad passed away. Lean on your Family and all those who love you. Love is what will carry you through this very painful time. He left behind a legacy that will forever live in all who were blessed by his life.
Always remember....The wonderful memories are yours forever.
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I am so sorry to hear of your loss. A few years ago I went to see John Edwards. He has written numerous books and helps people connect with those who have passed. He worked as a nurse in the hospital and he told us that frequently people will hold on and wait until their loved ones leave the room before they die. Otherwise, it is too difficult for them to pass when they know how difficult it will be for their loved ones to be there. I hope you find some comfort in that and i hope you are comforted by your wonderful memories of your father.
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Imagine the applause in heaven when he entered. (Max Lucado's book) Sweet joy for him and a gaping hole in your lives. Praying God will fill that hole with His peace and comfort.
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Gina, I am so sorry for your loss!!! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!!! I hope you find comfort in knowing that he is up in heaven building God a brand new lamp!!! Take care and keep that smile on your face!!! {{hugs}}
Chris
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Gina, hugs to you and your family! The memories you have of him will always be cherished by you. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
<> ... Kathy
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Gina I so sorry!! He and My Mom were born the same year.. I lost my mom in 2000 To brain cancer. Hospice were Our Rocks of Gibraltors..Hugs to you and your family..
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Gina...thank you for sharing your beautiful tribute to your Dad...thinking of you and your family....
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Gina, I am sooo sorry for your loss. He sounds like an amazing man. I pray that the incredible memories you have of good times with him will help you through this difficult time.
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Sorry to hear about your Dad. There is one saying that I found in a card once that I just love. It says "Perhaps they are not the stars, but rather openings in Heaven where the love of our lost ones shines down to let us know they are with us." May this bring you some comfort and peace.
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What a beautiful tribute to a special man. Our love and prayers are with you and your family.
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I am so sorry for your loss. Your father sounds like he was a wonderful man and a terrific father. All my sympathy to you and your family.
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Gina, Hugs and prayers go out to you and your family.Although knowing he is at peace and not suffering brings relief it does not prepare you for the sadness of his passing. May all your memories engulf you and help you through this difficult time. My mother passed away in 1990 and at times it's still difficult. Other times thinking of her just puts a smile on my face knowing she is near. My heart is with you.
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Gina, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
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I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you at this difficult time. As a nurse, I can truly agree with what the hospice worker said to you as I see it all the time. People can wait to protect those they love.
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Prayers and hugs sending your way!!!!
Did your Dad like football? - I bet he has good seats for this superbowl!!! If he bumps into my Pop tell him to give him a hug for me!!!
God Bless!!!
Tera
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Gina,
My heart goes out to you and your family. It sounds like he was a great inspiration to you and that you loved him dearly. May all of the great memories you have of him help you to heal.
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Gina, so sorry for your loss..........
Hugs,
Tammy M.
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Gina, I am so sorry for you loss. My very first blog entry this summer was about my loss of my dad. I will be praying for you. There is comfort in knowing he is with the Lord. In Him.
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My prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. What a wonderful man your father must have been!
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Gina
My heart goes out to you and your family. Now you have yet ANOTHER angel watching over you.
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Gina, I am sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers. You will find comfort in the Lord.
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I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your Dad. I pray that the peace of God reigns in your hearts and your home and that you all find much comfort and much joy in the precious memories that you shared with your Dad. He sounds like he was an amazing man on this earth and now he is gracing heaven with all that he was here and more. God's blessings to you and your family and your Mom.
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Gina,
I am sorry for your loss! I have been there and know how hard it is. It does help to know he is no longer suffering, and has rejoined his loved ones. You are in my prayers!
Love,
Jamie
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Hi, My thoughts and prayers are with you. I lost my mother 2 years ago in a hospice and it was the best way to say goodbye. I sat with her for 2 weeks as she made the journey and I understand exactly where you were with your dad. He truly is at peace now and he deserves that and so do you. Grieving takes time so give yourself lots of it.
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I'm very sorry Gina. May God's grace be sufficient during this difficult time. I rejoice that you will see him again & for all eternity!!
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My thoughts and prayers are with your family. Your dad is at peace. God Bless You and Your Family.
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gina!~
I am so sorry for your loss of your dad, and I was so touched by what you wrote...such a positive way to look at his going "home" being renewed and not suffering. What faith you have in Jesus..what a testament to others..God Bless you and your family.
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Gina, I am so sorry for your loss. I hope that you do receive great comfort in knowing that your dad is with Jesus and like you said, he can now see and hear once again. God Bless you my friend through the blogging system.
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My heart grieves with you.
May God's peace and strength fill your hearts with joy, as your dad dances with Jesus.
Our prayers and love go out from NY to you!
Kim Marie
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I am so sorry for your loss. Will be praying for you and your family.
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So sorry to hear about the loss of you Dad. I know it's some comfort to know that he is no longer suffering and is in a better place with God. Know that you and your family are in my prayers.
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Gina - I am so sorry for your loss and for your family. I will keep you and your family in my prayers that you will be comforted by the Holy Spirit during this time. God will sustain you & your family during this difficult time.
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My heart is deeply sad for you and your family. Your father looks like a beautiful man. I find myself singing the hymn Children of our Heavenly Father... "Though He giveth and He taketh, God His chldren ne'er forsaketh; His the lovely purpose solely, to preserve them pure and holy." God perserved your father and now will help you persevere and comfort you. I'm praying for you all.
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We know there is a "time" for everything under Heaven...your Dad is walking those streets of gold right now on his way to the workshop to make a few more lamps! Rejoice in all the loving memories you have of your Dad and know he is safe, secure, and whole again! Thoughts and many prayers are for you and your family during this time of separation. As your were and are blessed by his life, you bless ours. Thank you,
Jan
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Oh Gina! I am so sorry for your loss! Just wanted to let you know I was thinking about you. Take care
of yourself! Hugs!
AnnMarie
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Gina and family, I was so sorry to hear about your Dad's/Grandpa passing. May God bless all of you with comfort and happy memories. Aren't Dad's just the best... Hope your Mom will know that she is loved and will soon feel some joy.
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I'm so, so sorry for your loss but rejoice with you in heaven's gain. My prayers are with you and your family.
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Grace to you and your family.
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Gina, I am so very, very sorry for your loss. There are no words that can be said to adequately express the feelings. I'm sorry just doesn't do it, but it's all we can say. Knowing he's in a better place helps. He knew how
much you loved him. Knowing how much you both cared for one another is the best memory of all. Grief is a process
that takes time. Don't let anyone tell you that you're done until you feel you are. Loss is something we do not get
over...it's more like something we get used to. But there will be a time when you'll be able to remember without
the pain and tears. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Donna in FL
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I'm so very sorry to hear about the loss of your father, Gina. Take comfort in the wonderful memories you have of him.
Take Care,
Angie
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My deepest condolences to you and all of your family on your loss. He knew of your love for him. My prayers that you feel Heavenly Father's arms around you in your time of sorrow.
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Gina,
I'm so sorry for your loss. You can take great comfort that you will see him again!
God bless you,
Darlene, Savannah, GA
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I am so sorry for your loss. my prayers are with you and your family. our time on earth is so short sometimes we forget that and take our time for granted. I think you made the most of it with your dad and should be proud of being there as much as you had been
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Gina
I type4 with tears in my eyes. Be glad that your had time with him at the end. My Dad passed on Dec 28 of a massive heaert attack 25 years ago. This was suddon and we did not get goodbyes. Yes it still hurts but he is loved in our hearts. You got to spend some quality time with him that some of us are denied so take comfort it that. Remember the good times. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. It does get better over time but it is never easy to lose a parent. God bless you and your family.
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{{{{Hugs}}} to you Gina. I feel so much sorrow reading this, I can't imagine yours. My prayers are with you as you celebrate your Dad's life and all he meant to you and yours. Many blessings and comfort as and grieve the loss of such an inspiring man.
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My prayers are with you and your family. I lost my dad last year and I thank God every day that I have wonderful memories of him. How unfortunate for those who do not have those memories. It makes me appreciate what the Lord has given me even more! HUGS to you!
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Gina, So sorry to hear about your dad. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Dear Gina,
My heartfelt condolences to you and your family. The world is a better place because of your father's time here and I am grateful for the bits and pieces of him you have shared.
If it as consolation, my Dad is up there in heaven with the other Dads that have passed, showing your Dad around.
Many blessings to you and your family.
Julie
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Gina,
My heart goes out to you. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I just lost my husband to cancer 3 weeks ago and I know how hard it is to let them go but I know you have such wonderful memories some of which you have shared with us. Let those memories put a smile on your face and a song in your heart. I think that is what he would like you to do.
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Gina, I lost my Mom a year and a half ago, she was my best friend she is forever with me where ever I go. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jessie
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So sorry to hear of your loss Gina! How wonderful that you were able to spend so much time with him at the end - you will always have that sweet memory! My prayers will be with you over these next days and weeks. May God grant you strength and peace!
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Gina, I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers go out to you & your family during this difficult time.
Hugs.
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Gina, so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Gina you are in my thoughts & prayers. I lost my father many years ago and although he is missed, like you say they are suffering no longer! God bless
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Gina I am so sorry for your loss. Be thankful for the night you had with him and your ability to help him get to his last day. I am sure he felt every bit of your love. My sympathy goes out to you and your family.
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Gina I am so sorry for your loss but am so glad that you know that your father is with our Lord now and you will be seeing him again. He sounds like he was a wonderful man and father and that you have many precious memories of him. I lost my mother five years ago and I know that there will be good moments and sad moments in the days ahead and I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
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Gina, I am so sorry about your dad. I lost my father-in-law to colon cancer and the people at hospice are indeed angels. They were so kind and comforting in our hour of grief and sorrow. I really believe your dad waited so you wouldn't have to see him pass. God bless you and your family.
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you and your family are in my thoughts as you deal with this difficult situation.
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What precious words about your priceless relationship with a Father & daughter!
God bless,
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Sweet Gina----one of the things I love the most about your blog is how you share your REAL life with us. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing this difficult time with the stamping community. Please know that I will leave this post up as "unread" on my READER to remind me to pray for you and your entire family often. Your Heavenly Father knows well your grief and I pray you find peace and comfort in Him during these days. HUGS~
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Oh Gina, I am so sorry for your loss. I am glad you were able to spend so much time with him in his last hours on earth. What a blessing for him to know that you were there for him. Your Heavenly Father knows you well and He'll help you through this difficult time. Huge cyber hugs....
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Gina, I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our prayers and thoughts. God bless you and your family. Lots of hugs.
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Oh Gina, I'm sorry. I know that this must be difficult for you and your family. Know that he's in a better place and not hurting anymore. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
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My greatest sympathies to your family, Gina. My husband passed away after a year long battle with cancer at age 44 last June leaving our 12- and 14- year old children and myself brokenhearted. We miss him so dearly but we know the angels are with him and the hospice group continues to care for our family. I will pray for you.
Becky T
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{{{hugs}}} Gina. I am so sorry to hear about your Dad. He sounds like a wonderful man, and I am so thankful that he is healed and whole in heaven, and you will see him again! You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Gina, you brought tears to my eyes as I read through your post ... I am so very sorry for your loss!
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Gina, my heart goes out to you and your family during this time of loss. You dad is gone physically but he will never be gone from your lives. Especially when you have such wonderful pics of him with your kids like the one you posted above.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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Gina, Please accept my heartfelt sympathy at the loss of your father. What a beautiful tribute to him. May you find comfort in the knowledge he is safe in the arms of Jesus now and may the wonderful memories you have of him continue to comfort you. God Bless
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Gina,
my prayers for continued courage to you and your family. Big hug to you.
Chriss
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Dear Gina,
My heartfelt sympathies to you and your family...I cannot imagine your pain. Big hugs to you all and take all the time you need to get your life in order. These things take time to heal and you will be strong and have the support of those around you. God bless and our prayers are with you. xo Amanda
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Gina, my heart aches for you and your family. I hope that you will find comfort in your cherished memories. May the light that your father created in your home, bring light and warmth to your heavy heart. Sending lots of hugs across the miles... Jane.
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Oh dear sweet Gina , I am so sorry to hear of your loss , please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Your dad has the sweetest daughter on earth and we all love you , even though some of us have never met you we feel we are close friends . I wish I could reach through the computer and give you a big hug .
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Gina - my heart is with you during this difficult time. May God's comfort and love surround you and your family. Peace to you dear Gina
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From your description I can tell that your father was a very special man, and has given you many wonderful memories. How comforting to know that he is at peace and in the arms of Jesus. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Gina, I'm terribly sorry for your loss. I hope that you can draw strength and comfort from many happy memories.
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Gina, so sorry to hear about the loss of your father. My thoughts & prayers are with you & your family. Hang in there. He sounds like he lived life to the fullest. Hugs & love to you & your family.
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Gina, you have the most kindest words of your Father. Keep your special memories of him close~ you will feel him with you when you need him. My thoughts are with you and your family.
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Deepest sympathy and prayers to you and your family. Your Dad is at peace and in the hands of God now. Keep all the wonderful memories of your time with your father. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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I'm sorry Gina. He's not hurting anymore. He's not sad anymore. I'm sure your love was a great comfort and joy to him. I hope the good memories will soon replace a little of the sadness - NImmy
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Oh Gina I am so sorry to hear about your loss! Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers and I am sending you lots of hugs!
Love~ Kim
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Gina and family, I am so sorry for the loss of your father. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this very difficult time. May the peace of God, which passes all human understanding be with and bring you the comfort of knowing your dad is free of all of the earthly pain he endured. Blessings to you and a big hug.
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{{{Gina}}}~ As I sit hear reading your post, I have tears streaming down my face. I cannot imagine the day when it is time for my dad to go. My deepest heartfelt sympathy goes out to you, my friend. He is in a better place.
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My heart goes out to you and your family. You have written a beautiful tribute to a man whom you obviously loved very much.
May his memory be for a blessing.
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Gina,
Our prayers are lifted up for you and your family. I am sure your comforting presence that night gave your father the strength,comfort and peace to walk into the Fathers Presence. What Glories you father must be seeing!
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So sorry for your loss. Prayers & soft hugs for you and your family.
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{{hugs}} your words truly speak love, admiration & respect for your father and I know he was so proud of you. You are blessed to have had him for as long as you did, although it is never easy to lose a loved one, especially a parent. You're so right to take comfort of the knowledge of his glorified body and joining loved ones & Jesus; it's so important to remember. Much love & prayers to you & your family!
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Gina,
Hugs and prayers to you and all of you your family. When my grandmother died she waited for me to leave as well. The nurse had told me that she had wanted it that way. It was hard to accept because at first I felt like I had let her down. But I didn't. Sometimes they need us to step away to let go.
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So sorry for your loss. Sounds like he was one great guy that was full of life. I am glad that you were able to share such a long quality time together.
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Bless you and your family, you are in my thoughts now. Your out look is heartfelt and touching.
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What a wonderful man he must have been, indeed, to have a beautiful, loving, and caring daughter such as you. HUGS to you and your family as you go through this time of grieving. {{{HUGS}}}
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Gina, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family during this difficult time. God bless.
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My thoughts are with you....
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I am sorry for your loss and wish you well as you and your family move through this time. Take care
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My thoughts are with you....
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Gina...Prayers to you and your family! I am so sorry for your loss. I know you take comfort in knowing your father is in a better place.
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I am sorry for the loss of your father. Your eloquent words reveal the love of your father and the enormity of your loss. Thank you for sharing all your good times and bad, and know there are so many of us praying and thinking of you and your family. Take care of yourself, keep your memories near. God Bless.
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Gina,
I was saddened to hear of your loss. I myself lost my father to cancer 4 years ago. At that time, the pastor at my father's church said to me, "God has taken another one of his children back home". Those words brought comfort to me and my family and I hope it will to you and yours. My deepest condolences to you and your family.
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I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. My
prayers are with you and your family.
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Dear Gina & family:
You will certainly continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. I lost my father in 2000 and my mother in 2004. I still miss them terribly. My mother was on kidney dialysis and not doing very well with it. She asked her doctor if he thought that God would be mad at her if she stopped her treatment. The doctor told her that it was still up to God as to when she died and that if God was ready for her before she began the dialysis, He would be still be ready for her now. We had one week together before she passed away. I am an only child, so I was with her all the time. I stayed in a chair by her bed in the nursing home. My grown daughter came home to be with us for a few days but had to return to work before my mother died. We had a good week (all considered). My mother would point to an elderly person and say, "Look at that poor lady. She doesn't know anyone anymore. That will never be me". She quit dialysis two days before her wedding anniversary and five days before my father's birthday. She said, "Won't it be a good surprise for your father if I come to join him for our anniversary or on his birthday?" She assured me that if I had to be away that she would never be alone. "Jesus will come to take me by the hand and God will be waiting for me", she would say. Sometimes she would say, "I don't know what is taking God so long. We aren't making much progress here". I would tell her that God still must have plans for her. She would say, "At this late date?" God did have plans for her as she touched many lives during that week. One night I was sitting by her bed and she had slipped into a coma. Her breathing became a bit labored, so I went into the hall to get the nurse. I heard the nurse coming into the room so I moved away from the bed and had my back to my mother. When the nurse came in, I heard her gasp. My mother had passed away as soon as I moved from her bedside. I, too, felt bad, but remembered what she told me. How could Jesus take her by the hand if I had still been holding it. I will always have an empty place in my heart for my parents, but I know they are together in paradise. Praise be to God! Bless you, Gina. My the Lord give you strength and comfort through this time and in the years ahead.
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Gina, I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. Reading your post brought tears to my eyes as I remember the same feeling of somewhat relief when my mother passed away knowing that she no longer suffered in pain, but at the same time how unbearable it was for us. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your lovely family. Treasure the memories... God Bless
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Gina my deepest sympathy goes to your mother, you and the rest of your family during these truly sad times. I firmly believe that the hospice nurses were right in what they said, please take comfort in the fact that you gave your father great comfort in his last hours and that he is now in a better place, God Bless
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Gina,
I am sorry for the loss of your Dad. I too believe he has a new body because of his faith in Jesus Christ as his personal Savior. Amen!
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My heart goes out to you and your mother. My own father was born in 1919; he passed away in Hospice care a year ago - and I know how you must feel. May you find comfort in the love of family and support in your friends and healing in your Faith.
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Gina,
So sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers that you can heal from this.
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Gina, I'm crying with you right now. I am so sorry for your and your family's loss. I'm glad you are able to find some comfort at this time, and even now reflect on the success your father made of his life.
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Oh Gina,
I'm so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers.
We lost my grandma just before Christmas after 9 months of battling cancer. She was comfortable at home with hospice care for 2 weeks. I miss her every day. And yet there is so much comfort in knowing she's with God and without pain - as is your wonderful father.
I'll be thinking of you, Ms. Gina... you are such a kind and loving soul.
Love and prayers,
Lisa
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I know it sounds cliche' but I will be praying for you and your family at this very difficult time. Nothing I can say will make it any easier but the knowledge that this isn't forever can.
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Dear Gina & Family,
My deepest sympathy to you, your mother and your entire family. We will be keeping all of you in our thoughts and prayers.
Love and hugs,
Dotty
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Please allow me to add my respects to you and your family for your loss. May God bless you all with strength and peace.
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Condolences to you and your family, Gina. One thing I can attest to is that no one is truly gone...they continue to touch our lives because they are never forgotten...they live on in our memories and hearts.
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gina,
my thoughts are with you. you've got so many great memories of your dad and i hope you will try to concentrate on them.
hugs carol
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My sincerest sympathy, Gina, to you and your family. I said some prayers for you all this morning in church. You are right... your dad is in Heaven, free of pain and suffering and joined with loved ones that passed before him. But it doesn't mean you won't miss him terribly. His love will stay with you always, though. I still feel my mother with me every day even though it's been 15 years since she passed. And it does get easier with time. It took me about a year, but now when I think about her, it's with nothing but happy memories and no more gripping pain. I look forward to seeing her again someday in Heaven. May God bless you in this time of grieving. I truly believe He will.
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((((HUGS)))) to you and your family Gina! Your father sounds like a wonderful man who lived life to its fullest. I'm very sorry for your loss.
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Gina you and your family are in my prayers. Find comfort in knowing that your father is in a better place, where he want have any pain. Also he loved you so much that he did not what your last memory of him to be him taking his last breath from this earth.
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Gina-I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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Daddies are special - now your dad will be UP there with mine - watching down on us and our families! Our thoughts and prayers are with your family during this sad time.
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I'm so sorry to hear about your father's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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I'm so sorry to hear about your father's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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My sincerest sympathies for your loss - though your father will always be missed, may all your spirits find strength & healing in this community of prayer & support.
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Gina I am so sorry for your loss. May you find great peace and joy from all of the loving memories. My prayers are with you and your family.
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Dear Gina and Family
My deepest sympathy goes out to your, family and all who know your Dad. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Take comfort in knowing and believing that your Dad is now with Christ for eternity. It is hard to be left behind but know that He and all that have gone before him wait with Christ for your arrival. Hug your girls, remind them of how wonderful Grandpa is and how much he loves them.
Draw near to God and He will comfort you.
All my prayerful support and God's abounding blessings to you all.
Catherine M
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Gina, What an encouragement you are to us...even in your time of mourning. The Lord Jesus is well pleased, I'm sure, at the words and HOPE you've expressed. You will see you father again and there will be great rejoicing. Thanks for sharing him with us in the words you've written. I'm praying for you and your family, my friend.
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I love the picture of your dad. What an amazing life he had! So sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
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{{{Gina}}} I'm so sorry to learn of your great loss. My heartfelt sympathy to you and your family in this difficult and sad time. May you find comfort in your knowledge that your dad is again whole, at peace and with God.
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My heart grieves for and with you. So sorry for your loss.
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May your wonderful memories of your dad live on in your heart forever. My condolences to you and your family.
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Gina and Family, Big Hugs and Prayers to you all. I am sorry to hear of your loss.
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Gina and Family,
I am sorry for your loss....by reading what you wrote about your DAD, you paid him HONOR....even in his death! God is smiling down on you for that with your DAD standing right there next to him. God is pleased with your DAD for how he raised you!!!
My prayers are with you and your family.. Sharon Field
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Gina,
From the sounds of it, your Dad was an amazing human. I'm so sorry to hear of his passing. I will say a little prayer for you and your family, especially your girls.
Your Dad wouldn't want you to be sad, I imagine he would want you to celebrate his life and maybe share some funny stories about him. I'm sure he is going to find a way to make you laugh/smile during this difficult time.
with deepest sympathy~
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Gina,
I am so sorry for your loss. I pray that God will be with you and your family at this time.
Chris R.
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I can completely understand your pain. I'm fighting the same battle with my baby brother, and had to say goodnight tonight probably for the last time. He has a very strong faith and knows where he'll be, but is leaving behind an incredible wife and two beautiful young boys. It has been a long, hard battle of 3 1/2 years, but the victory will be his soon. God bless and comfort you now and in the tough days ahead of adjusting to life without someone you love so deeply. I know your pain!
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Gina, I am so sorry for your loss. Your post about your father was just beautiful, and it brought me to tears. You and he obviously shared a beautiful bond, and I'm sure he's smiling down at you right now. Lots of {{HUGS}}.
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Gina, So sorry to hear about your father. He sounds like he was an absolutely wonderful person. You are in our thoughts.
-Russ
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Gina,
My deepest sympathy to you and your family in the loss of your father. Though he will be dearly missed, I know he is in a better place and is in peace.
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My deepest sympathies for your loss.
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Gina: I am so sorry for the death of your father - I can only image you are heart broken. Please find comfort in knowing that you gave your father the greatest gift you could by getting in bed with him and snuggling up with him. That probably brought him more joy than you could ever image.
I worked at that HospiceCare Center for about 13 years and not that it will help your grief-but know that many many people wait until all their loved ones are out of the room and are then able to take that journey over. It is very difficult for the family members to not have been there as their loved one passed away. I think that is their final gift to us as either they are very private people or they are taking that final journey much as they lived their lifes. Know that you will see your father again some day and that will be at a time when you need him the most.
Continue to surround yourself with your father's memories and be extra special good to yourself. Kadie
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I am so sorry for your loss. I know there are no words to comfort you, but I am glad to hear he has gone home to his "forever home" with his Savior - the best place any of us could be. My prayers will be with you and your family.
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Wow. Your dad lived 90 wonderful years!
Treasure each and every one of them. He has touched many lives even towards the end.
I'm sorry to hear about his passing.
Bless you and yours.
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I'm sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers in this difficult time.
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Well, you sure brought me to tears quickly with your words. Tears of sadness and joy. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. The wonderful thing about death when Christ is your Savior is that it is not goodbye forever. It is only a hiatus until you will get to be with him for all eternity.
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My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss.
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Losing a parent is never easy! My deepest sympathies for your loss!!
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Your father sounds like a wonderful, funny, loving and charming man who lived life to the fullest (how many of us have the courage to make our living as a comedian? how many of us have the dedication and talent to compete and win an Olympic medal?). You are fortunate to have so many wonderful memories and to know you were "Daddy's little girl."
I am so sorry for your loss but rejoice with you that your Dad is in a heavenly place surrounded by those who love him and with none of this earth's burdens. Prayers and warm thoughts to you and your family during this difficult time.
Warmest regards,
Nancy in Indiana
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Gina,
You and your entire family will be in my prayers, that God grant you peace during this difficult time. I lost my dad when I was 17, so I know what it is like to be a daddy's girl, who loses her daddy.
Love from TN,
LOri
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He passed with the same honor he lived by. He is gone but will never be forgotten.
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My deepest condolences to you and your family. It's hardest to loose a loved one but rejoice in the wonderful memories your Dad left for you. He lives on with the Lord.
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So sorry about your loss. But God will heal by leaving you with wonderful memories. God bless!
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Oh Gina, I was so sadden to read this entry and I'm so sorry for your loss. You and your family have been in my thoughts since the first day you announced his declining health and I'm sorry to read that he's lost his battle. From what you've shared with us, he sounded like an amazing person and even though I never met him, I just know in my heart that nothing will break the special bond you had with him. He will be forever in your heart, lovingly in your memories and hope in time the love you shared with him will overtake any sorrow you may be feeling right now.
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So sorry for your loss. What a comfort to know that your Dad is safe in the arms of Jesus. 'Holding you and your family close in my thoughts and prayers,
Brenda H.
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Gina I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you can find comfort that he is no longer in pain. You and your family are in my prayers.
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Gina,
I'm very sorry to hear about your dad. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
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SORRY FOR MY BAD ENGLISH BUT I REALY WANT TO ENCOURAGE YOUR ATTITUDE WITH YOUR FATHER BECAUSE TOO MANY PEOPLE DIE ALONE AND I THINK TO HAVE YOU AT HIS SIDE HAS MADE IT EASIER TO GO
YOU MAY FEEL RIGHT NOW YOU HAVE DONE THE BEST FOR HIM
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your father is safe in the arms of God. he is free of sadness, pain and all that made him suffer.
while he is absent from your visual self, he is carried eternally in your heart.
i too was away when my dad died. it was a 40 minute ride home and the hospice nurse said to go home, and as i pulled into the driveway my husband met me at the car to tell me dad had gone.
i think he wanted it that way. and i respect that.
i miss him EVERY day Gina, and he's been gone 16 years. you will too because we loved them, draw strength from family and friends. it's ok to laugh. it's ok to cry.
i am so very very sorry for you and your family.
janice
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Gina, your post not only brought tears to my eyes but it was a beautiful post about your precious father. It made me want to meet him, to see his amazing lamps, and to rejoice that he is no longer suffering and is with his precious Father in heaven! How awesome it is that he can hear, see, and be youthful again! May the Lord cover you in His strength, His peace, and His comfort! I am truly sorry for your loss! In Him,
Patter
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Dear Gina,
What a beautiful tribute to your father. I have tears running down my face as I read this. Thank you for sharing such a powerful moment between you and your dad - I can only imagine how proud he must have been of you and how deeply you were loved by such an incredible man. "May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in Him." Your family will be in our prayers as you both mourn his death and celebrate his new life.
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Gina, I am so, so sorry for your loss! It is hard to loose someone so close to your heart and I can really relate to you for feeling so up-set for not being there when your father past away! My mother passed away 9 years ago, just 2 weeks after I moved to Canada from Germany. I wasn't able to go back for the funeral, because I was 8 month pregnant with my third child and there was no way they would let me on an airplane. It was the saddest time of my life! My prayers and well wishes are with you and your family, Beatrice
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Dear Gina,
My heart goes out to you during your difficult time. I am mourning the loss of my 17 yr old nephew who passed away in Oct after battling brain cancer for 2 years. I appreciate your strong testimony and thank you for sharing it openly. My daughter is terminally ill and we talk about how she will someday be able to run and play with her cousin and enjoy the company of her Savior. I so appreciate your art and your creativity (and I love your online store!) but I also appreciate you sharing your personal life with us too.
You are a wonderful person and a blessing in my life. May the Lord be with you and comfort you at this time.
((hugs))
nancy
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Thoughts, prayers and hugs.
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I am so sorry to read about your Dad. My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family.
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I am so sorry to read about your Dad. My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family.xxx jo xx
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I am so sorry for your loss of your father. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. debb
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I am so sorry for your loss. Your words were inspiring to me. Like you, I am a Daddy's girl too. Only certain people can understand that bond. I will continue to pray for you and your family.
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My thoughts and prayers go out to you in this time.
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All rivers come, at last, to the Sea
All pain comes, at last, to Peace
All fear comes, at last, to Love
All sprit comes, at last, home again to God {J.W. Anglund}
My mom also waited till I left for the night so I would not have as my last memory hewr last breath. My thought are with you. Pat H.
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Gina we are all with you in your pain and in the peace you will feel in the days to come.
Lots of thoughts and prayers coming your way.
Dianne
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Gina,
I send you my most heartfelt sympathies. You entry was deeply moving. You are indeed lucky to have the love of such a remarkable man and he was lucky to have the love and devotion of such a loving daughter. Death is hardest on those of us left behind. I am glad that you are able to take comfort in the fact that your father is in the arms of Christ and your loved ones that have passed. I will be lifting you up in prayer. Blessings to you and those that mourn with you.
Michelle
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Dear Gina,
You and your family are in my prayers. Though your father suffered from blindness and hearing loss he was able to sense your love and presence in your gift of touch in the time you spent with him in the end. Cherish your memories and rejoice that he indeed has a new body and is free from his pain. Take comfort in your faith and your family in this difficult time.
Karen
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My deepest sympathies...it sounds like he was a wonderful man and that you have lots of great memories!
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Dearest Gina,
Please know that we share your pain.
Joelle and family
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Gina, I'm so, so sorry for your loss. Please accept this {{hug}}. I'm keeping you and your family in my prayers. I wish you peace.
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Gina, I am so sorry for your loss. I hope all your wonderful memories help comfort you during this time. Your dad is free from pain and was met by his loved ones who passed before. You will of course see him again, until then you have an angel watching over you.
(((HUGS)))
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Gina,
I am so sorry for you loss but find happiness in the fact that your dad is no longer suffering and he is happy with all the loved ones passed before him. Your family sound wonderful and I am sure you will find the support you need between you. My thoughts are with you.
Siobhan xx
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Big HUGS to you
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Gina, I am so sorry for your loss. I read through your post and I found myself sitting here with tears running down my cheeks. Your words of love touched my heart so much, just as you have touched so many lives. I will continue to pray for you and your family and you deal with your grief.
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Gina, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. This is one of the hardest times in your life, but know that you have one special angel looking down on your and taking care of you. I also lost my dad a couple years ago to cancer, and I know that he is always there for me - looking down and taking care of my family. I take comfort knowing that he is free of pain, suffering and he's doing everything he always wanted to do. Hugs to you and your family.
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I am sorry for your loss.
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My thoughts & prayers are with you & your family in the loss of your father. I am sure it was so special being able to be with him at the end. I'm sure you have wonderful memories & hope they will comfort you at this time.
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oh Gina and family...I hope this little poem helps just a little...cherish your memories, speak his name often...
A beautiful tribute on your blog and a fabulous picture!!!
Hugs to you all
Death is nothing at all
I have only slipped away into the next room
I am I and you are you
Whatever we were to each other
That we are still
Call me by my old familiar name
Speak to me in the easy way you always used
Put no difference into your tone
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow
Laugh as we always laughed
At the little jokes we always enjoyed together
Let my name be ever the household word that it always was
Let it be spoken without effort
Life means all that it ever meant
It is the same as it ever was
There is absolute unbroken continuity
Why should I be out of mind
Because I am out of sight?
I am waiting for you for an interval
Somewhere very near
Just around the corner
All is well
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Gina, thank you for sharing this with us. Your Dad sounds like a wonderful man. I am sorry to hear he has passed. I am not really sure what to say, but I am praying for you and your family, and wishing you all the best. *hugs*
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Gina,
My thoughts are with you at this difficult time. It is hard losing a loved one. Be thankful you were able to be with him when he needed you, and know that he will you as well, only in spirit. Deepest Sympathies.
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Gina,
You and your family are in my prayers and thoughts as you face the days ahead. I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Big hugs to you and your family. Thoughts and prayers are with you for the coming days ahead.
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I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers will be with you in the coming days and months.
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I am so sorry for your great lost. you and yours will be in my prayers for comfort. You are blessed to have such a father.
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Gina, I'm so sorry. Your family is in my thoughts. Take care.
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My dear Gina; There are no words that can bring you comfort right now, so I won't try to ... but please allow me to leave you with two scriptures that may give you a measure of peace (this one you have heard all your life): "Blessed are those who mourn,for they will be comforted." Matthew 5:4. The other is: "Jesus said to her, "I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in me will live, even though he dies; 26and whoever lives and believes in me will never die. Do you believe this?" John 11:25, 26 This lessening of grief may not happen today or even a month from now; but between God and your memories, you will be comforted in due time. Remember you have friends that love you and grieve with you.
Hugs, and Prayers,
Debi E.
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Gina, I am so very sorry for you and your family's loss. There are no words but so many prayers are with you.
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sending so many hugs Gina. I can so totally relate to how you feel. the same thing happened when my mom passed away. I was devastated that I wasn't there for her, I had just left her that morning in the hospital and we all got the call to come back and we were all too late. I really believe that she didn't want us there when she passed. God Bless you!
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God Bless you and your family. So sorry for your loss, But your trust in God will help you as each day goes by.
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{{{Gina}}}What a beautiful tribute to a wonderful, full life. Thinking of you, sweet friend.
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Gina, We are so sorry for your loss. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers!! We have grown to know you, love you, admire you. You are family to us and we feel your loss!!
With Heartfelt Sympathy
The Hepburns
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Gina, I am so sorry to hear that you father has passed away. We are never prepared even when a long illness has preceeded the passing. He is still watching over you and always will. Hugs...Lola
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Oh, Gina!! My heart aches for you!! I know what it is like to lose a parent that you treasure beyond words. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you mourn your father
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Gina,
I am so sorry for your loss. My Dad passed away when I was 25 and I still miss him 25 years later. I was his only girl and the baby of the family. The memories will get you thru this. Hugs!
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My deepest sympathies are with you and your family. Please take comfort in knowing your father's journey on earth has been completed in order for him to return to home to our Heavenly Father.
(((((((((((((((((((Hugs))))))))))))))))
Gina
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Gina, I am so sorry for your loss. Just wanted to let you know that we are praying for you and your family. (((hugs)))
Heather B. & family
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My condolences are with you and your family, Gina. Your father sounds like a wonderful man. He was blessed to have a wonderful loving daughter in you, too. I will be thinking of you.
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Sorry for the loss of you dad.
Gena
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I'm so sorry to hear about your dad. I hope he enjoying Heaven though!
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Sincerest condolenses to you and your family Gina.
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Gina
My sympathy to you and your family on the loss of your Dad. Sounded like he was very special and it so hard to loose a parent. Remember all the good times you had together. Memories are precious and what gets us through the tough times.
Love Joyce
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God bless you as you go through the grieving process: hang onto your sweet memories, the love of your family & friends, and knowing that you'll see your wonderful Father in heaven. Thank you for sharing with all of us.
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My thoughts are with you and your family. I enjoyed reading your heartfelt story, thanks for sharing it with us.
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Gina,
My sincerest sympathies to you and your family. I hope you take comfort in knowing your dad lives on in the wonderful person you have come to be and the traits you have passed on to your children.
Lisa
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I am so sorry for your loss Gina. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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What a wonderful story you shared with us. Your father knew he was loved throughout his life..what a great gift. He gave his gift of laughter to everyone...what an inspiration. May you and your family find comfort and peace.
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I am so sorry for your loss, and yet I rejoice with you that he is now in his eternal home with our Lord. What a beautiful tribute is your loving notice of his passing. Be comforted by your memories. I have found great comfort in mine.
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Gina, your dad sounds like such a wonderful guy! I know you'll all miss him so much (especially you!), but what a wonderful thing to know that he's now free of all that bound him here on this earth. And imagine seeing the face of Jesus! What a reward for a life well-lived.
My heartfelt sympathy goes out to you all as you deal with his absence now. May your wonderful memories of him keep him close to you, and may the knowledge that you'll see him again one day sustain you, along with God's loving arms around you.
Stacy Aannestad
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Oh Gina! I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your father. Please know that your presence to him in his time of illness was a precious gift of love for him. Especially in his very last days. I hope that you can take comfort and peace in the memories that you had with your father and that these memories will be with you as you journey through your grief. xoxox
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May God's arms wrap around you and give you comfort. Rest in Him.
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That is a beautiful eulogy,Gina. My prayers are with you and your family. Your faith will sustain you and your family and friends will support you during this painful time- lean on them- and take care of yourself.
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My thoughts and prayers are with you. I hope you find comfort in the loving memories that you have.
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I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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Everyone has pretty much said it, but I too wanted to let you know that your dad in such a wonderful place now and that someday you will have the chance of being with him again. I am sure he will be watching over your Mom and all of your family. May the happy thoughts of the wonderful life he had continue to support you at this time.
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Gina,
I am sorry for your loss, but share in your joy at your dad's resurrection. When my aunt died she waited for my mom, her older sister, to arrive (she too had been sent home, I drove her back). My cousin, my aunt, my mom and I sang "When Irish Eyes Are Smiling." My son arrived just after she passed. How wonderful for you that you have such a great picture of dad with the kids -- with his hands! I noticed that picture right away and when I read of his crafting and working with his hands I realized what a blessing that picture will always be! Peace, Mary
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Gina - While I only know you through this blog, my heart aches for you and your family! Take comfort in your faith, as the Lord is good! Hugs and prayers to you and your family...
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My heart goes out to you and your family, Gina. I will pray that God keeps your father in his hands always.
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Gina please know that my thoughts are with you and your family. May you find peace in the great memories you have.
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May God be with you all. So sorry.
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I am so sorry for your loss. How comforting for him that you got to spend so much time together.
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Oh, I'm so sad to read your post. It sounds like he was a wonderful man and I'm sorry you will miss his presence. I'm glad you could be with him towards the end(((HUGS)))
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Oh Gina, I am SO very sorry to hear this. My heart is breaking for you. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers! Sending you BIG HUGS!
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Hi Gina, I am so so sorry to hear about your dad! I am so thankful, though, that you know where he is now! There is such trememdous comfort in knowing that the one you love is in the arms of his Savior. I will be praying for you and your family. . .that God will comfort you as only He can do. Blessings to you...
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Gina, I am so sorry for your loss. I know in a way it is bittersweet--he is in a better place now, but you will miss him terribly. {{hugs}} to you and your family.
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Gina, I am so sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. My eyes are filled with tears as I read your story. I can tell by the way you talk of him, that he was an amazing man with so much love to share with everyone. Hugs
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Gina, although I do not know you personally, I feel as though I do from reading your daily blogs. My deepest sympathy to you and your family during this difficult time.
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What a very sweet posting and such a nice tribute to your dad. My sincerest sympathy to you and all your family
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Gina, I am so so sorry for the loss of your dad. The note you wrote on your blog is truly a testament of the love you shared.
I too share your loss as I lost my dad in September. He also waited to leave us until my sister and I had dozed off in the chairs beside his hospital bed. I really believe they want to spare us the memory of that last breath.
Take comfort in the memories of your beloved dad. He is now at peace and in the arms of his Father. My prayers are with you.
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My heart goes out to you and your family. May the wonderful memories of your dad bring you comfort and joy. He will live in your heart forever.
Gina, I am the youngest of 4 girls. I lost my dad in 1979. The same thing happened to me -- Dad passed away shortly after I left the hospital. I firmly believe both of our dads could not let go otherwise. I wish you strength and peace. Take care.
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Gina, so sorry for your loss. The tribute to your father was very touching. You have my deepest sympathy.
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I'm so sorry for your lost. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers!
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My thoughts and prayers are with you right now. Thank you for sharing his story with us.
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My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. While the separation is hardest for those left behind who will miss him, it is helpful that you can take some comfort knowing that he is in a far better place.
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Gina, I'm sorry for you loss... You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers... Nancy P...
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My dad passed away from cancer at the UW hospital and I missed that too. We have our memories. God bless you and your family.
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Gina
My prayers and thoughts are with youand your family. Your dad is now your angel watching over you. My daughter just recently lost her infant son and I know the pain you must be feeling. May the many happy memories carry you through this sorrowful time.
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Dear Gina,
You and your family are in my prayers. I know how hard this is. My Dad sounded a lot like yours, he loved to work with his hands and although he didn't get paid to work as a comedian he certainly was! Oh and the stories he would tell!! We still laugh about them and always will.He made wooden toys for all his grandchildren..I have girls.. they got a carousel, ferris wheel, a little "throne",and several other things, a puzzle map of the USA.. they are treasures..You have your Dad's lamps which are treasures also.
My Dad loved to whistle! I find sometimes I will start to whistle and not even realize it! Do you think it is a way that they continue to communicate with us? I can also smell him sometimes..I know that he is with me..as I know your Dad will always be with you.. I sometimes wonder if he and his brother are driving St. Peter and our Lord nuts with all their practical jokes..exploding home made root beer...you know stuff like that!
...Your father is in the Lords loving embrace..He will care for him and for you and your family as well. I know that the Lord gave me solace when my father Died..I also just missed his death by 10 min. although had been with him most of that week. He was able to die at home..Oh I am sorry if I am making this worse for you..I hope not..
I pray that you feel our Lords loving embrace and His sense of Peace...you will see your Dad again...and when you do..he will have a new stage show for you! Think of all the material he can get in Heaven!
God Bless you Gina,
Mary Friederichsen
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So sorry to hear of your loss. May you find a peace in the coming days knowing that God is with you. Blessings to you and your family.
Michele Burnard
mburnard@sympatico.ca
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So sorry to hear of your loss. My dad died 5 years ago of a massive stroke. I agree with the nurses that the dying can pick their moment to go - our entire family had been with Dad and it looked like he was going to last another night, so everyone was sent home except me, Mum and my DH. As soon as they all went, so did he!
I know you will miss him dreadfully, but the pain of his passing will ease with time.
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Gina,
So sorry to hear of your loss. I know that you and your family will miss him terribly, but his presence and your memories will always be with you. I am thankful that you see the blessing of your father's movement from our world to heaven. It may make it a little bit easier... Thank you for sharing your personal thoughts and experiences with all of us. You are in the thoughts and prayers of so many...
Kristen
Marvin, NC
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Gina I am so sorry for your loss. I was moved to tears reading your post. Please know that my prayers are with you during this time. {{{{HUGS}}}} Tracy
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I am so sorry for your lose. I didn't realize your dad was sick as I have just discovered you. What you wrote brought tears to my eyes because your dad sounds just like what happened to my dad and me. He waited until I was gone and died within 2 minutes. That was 10 years ago. I can't tell you it won't contine to hurt, but I can tell you it will get easier. You will remember the good times and the laughter and your tears will be because you miss him so much. Even after 10 years have passed there is not a day I don't wish my dad was alive, but I'm truly glad he is no longer in pain and is happy in heaven. I know he watches over me and that is a comfort. You are lucky you had him so long. My prayers are with you and your family. You dad is doing just fine now.
sam
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Gina, I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved father. What a wonderful tribute you wrote about your Dad. God Bless you and your family.
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Oh my, Gina! I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your father. I couldn't stop bawling as I read your post as I am still crying posting this message. My heart and many hugs goes out to you and your family during this difficult time. My husband's family suffered a terrible loss as well. The daughter of a good friend of the family passed away from cancer last Thursday. So I spent all of last night making sympathy cards for the family. She leaves behind a young son and daughter and husband. She was given permission to spend her last hours at home with family. She was only in her early 40's.
Take great comfort that your dad is with our Heavenly Father and is now a spirit who will always look down on you as your guardian angel. God Bless your family.
Alma =)
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I am so sorry for your loss, Gina.
You and your sweet dad were so blessed to have each other.
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
you and your family are in my prayers.
Hugs Anja
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I am sending you blessing and prayers for you and your family during this time. Thank goodness for all the wonderful memories you made together.
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Oh Gina, my heart goes out to you on the loss of your precious father. Your tribute to him on your blog was so touching it brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for sharing it with us!
Hugs,
Amy
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Gina,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. My deepest sympathies.
Kathy Adams
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My deepest condolences to you and your family. Your father sounds like an extraordinary man. I just know that he is looking over all of you. I admire your outlook in spite of the grief that I know you are feeling.
He is in the arms of Christ and that is the best place to be!
Love and prayers for all of you.
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Gina, I know you are somewhat numb now, but you'll look back and remember all the good times and that will bring a smile to your face. Please know your cyber friends love and care about you.We are here when you need to talk about it. Some of us can identify with your feelings, but all of us love you.
You and your family are in my prayers.
Hugs,
Juanita D.
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Oh Gina, I can hardly see to write this after reading about your Dad...my prayers and thoughts are with you and your family...it is such a comfort to know he is with Christ! God bless you!
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Dear Gina,
I've only had the pleasure of speaking with you one time. You were such a delightful person to talk to when I was placing an order over the phone. As a fellow Philadelphian you made me feel special and spent quite a long time talking to me despite your very busy schedule. That meant a lot to me. As a regular follower to your newsletter, Ihave ha d many days of inspiration and joy from your articles and stamped samples. I just wanted to let you know how much joy that you give to others.
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your Dad. I know that you and your family are still in shock and grieving. I will keep you and your Family in my prayers. May God continue to surround you with His infinite love during these sad days.
Peace and love,
Dolores Leonard
Philadelphia, Pa
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Gina, I am so sorry to hear about your dad. He sounds like a wonderful man and Father! You are blessed to have had him so long.
God bless you and your family, you will be in my prayers. Find strength and peace knowing he is not suffering now.
Love and hugs.
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My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. And I totally understand your feelings. Happy because he is finally free of health problems, but sad that someone that means so much to you, will not be around to talk with, in person, although he will still hear you. And the nurse was correct, sometimes people wait to pass away until no one is there, etc. I got the call from the nursing home that my mother wasn't going to be here on Earth much longer, and by the time I was ready to leave the house-about 5 minutes later-I got the call that she was already gone. So obviously, she didn't want me to see her pass either.
Losing a parent is never easy, lean on the Lord at this time, as He is always there.
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i look at your blog everyday i want to pass on my deepest condolences on hte loss of your dad, very beautiful picture of you all very happy. he is an angel watching over you and your family.
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Oh Gina, I am so sorry to hear about your father. I am sure, though, that you are comforted knowing he is in a better place, without pain. I am sure you will miss him terribly, but how blessed you are to have such wonderful and warm memories of him! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God bless you all Gina!
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Gina and Family, my condolences to you and your family. You have wonderful memories of your dad, as I do of mine, and those will help you in your time of mourning. God Bless.
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Dear Gina, You and your family are in my prayers. I lost my dad to cancer. I know it is so hard to watch them die. I totally agree with hospice nurse he did not want to see him die. Just keep remembering the good times. Thank you for sharing this with us and all the great inspiration you give us.
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Oh Gina, I am so saddened to hear about your Father. You speak of him with such love, such kindness. I am sorry for your loss and hope those happy memories you mention bring you comfort.
Sending hugs your way,
Meredith
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My prayers go out to you and the family, Gina. Remembering the precious moments you shared will see you through these difficult days. God Bless.
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Dearest Gina, I am SO SORRY to hear of the loss of your precious Daddy! Please know that our family is praying for yours during this sad time! Sherri
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I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. Your family will be in our prayers. May your memories comfort you.
Gina L
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So sorry to hear of the loss of your dad. My prayers are with you and your family.
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What a great picture you posted on your blog. My family lost my 96yr. old grandfather this past september. I am grateful that my children were old enough to have their own memories of him. May God comfort you and your family. Kathy
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Dear Gina and Family - My deepest sympathy to all of you for your loss. May the Lord comfort you during this difficult time and rest in the knowledge that your father is with our loving savior. God bless all of you - Mary
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Gina, I don't know you yet, but your love for your dad shines so strong. I lost my beloved Dad 14 years ago and I have great empathy for you. I, too, believe that we go on to be with our Father in heaven. May you find comfort in your faith and memories.
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Gina,
My prayers and hugs to you and your family on your loss. Let the Lord comfort you and carry you during this time and may you only remember the good times and the goodness that was your Father and know that someday you will be together again.
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Obviously you and your dad had a very special relationship. I am so sorry for your loss. Know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Gina, I am so glad your father is with our Lord. Such a wonderful place to be now. My the Lord be over your family and yourself. My prayers are with you. Love, Stephanie
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Gina, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I have learned over time that even though those last days in the hospital hurt so much, they become the moments that begin the healing of our own hearts. You sound like that healing has already began. It is great to see such strong families in this day and age when so many people just don't understand the importance of family. God Bless you, your family and your newest guardian angel. He must be delighted to be able to see all of the wonderful beauty you and your daughter have brought to the rest of us.
We are all thankful for you.
Melissa
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Gina, I'm so sorry to hear of your father's passing and know that peace is his now. His is resting comfortably, pain free and will always be there to watch over you and your precious children. Take comfort in knowing you were a gift to him and a joy like none other. Many prayers to get you through this difficult time.
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I'm very sorry to hear about your dad. You and your family are in my thoughts. I'm sure that you are glad that you were able to spend his last night with him.
That is a very nice picture of him and the kids.
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Gina, My heart goes out to you. Please know I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
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I am so sorry for your loss. I hope your memories of him will help give you comfort through this difficult time.
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Gina: Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts. My father was a crafter as well - he could make anything - and I know that's where my interest came from. When he passed away several years ago, I was on the road to my parents' house, and missed him by just minutes and my brother and nephew arrived just half an hour after from California. I know he knew I was there. When my mom passed a few years later, I had to take her off life support after my brother again arrived from CA so he wouldn't miss her, too. Mom and dad were always so cute holding hands til he passed, so I knew that he would be waiting to welcome her home. The hospital chaplain, a very kind, quiet woman, asked if she could read Psalm 121 as we said goodbye to my mom. I got on the bed with her, as well, and the greatest calm and peace of God came over me - I knew she was with her Father and my dad. I hope you can read and take comfort in that Psalm, as well. God bless your dad's soul and the sweet memories that you'll call on time after time in the future to keep him close. Kris, Wadsworth, OH
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I am sorry for your loss. May you be comforted and strengthen by the Lord.
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Gina,
My heartfelt condolences to you and your family on the loss of your Beloved Dad. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Please remember....After the flowers have faded, love and memories remain.
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You have been on my mind so much today, and I have been praying for you. You have been so blessed by God to have had such a wonderful father. And I can see by your words and actions that he fulfilled his purpose on earth--to pass God love on to his family and to help others. God bless you and your family this week as you say good-bye to a very special man.
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Gina, I am so very sorry. My dad passed away 6 years ago, at age 57 (also from cancer, & he also had battled heart disease), & I also missed him by a couple of minutes. I just couldn't get to the hospital fast enough. My thoughts & prayers are with you & your family.
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I am so sorry for your loss. My dad passed away last year in February from throat cancer. I watched him wither away for two years before God gave him peace. I was at the house the day of and had actually just arrived home when I got the call (1 hr drive). I felt like he had waited for me and my daughter since we hadn't seen him in a couple weeks. Anyway - I understand your feelings and my thoughts and prayers for you and your family.
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OMG! Gina,
I am so sorry for your loss. my prayers are with you and your family.
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My prayers are with your family.
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Gina, I am saddened to hear about the loss of your father. I know he is in a better place now where he can see & hear and feel like a young man again. I know this is a hard time for you and your family and I will keep you all in my prayers.
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm praying for you and your family. Your post is a wonderful tribute to a fabulous man. It brought tears to my eyes as I read it. {Hugs}
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a beautiful tribute to your dad... blessings to you and the family
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Gina, God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. My prayers and thoughts are with you all......Billye
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Gina, I am sorry to hear about your loss. Although your father will be sadly missed by you and your family, take comfort in the fact that he is with Christ and is no longer in pain. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
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Gina, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. It is so hard to lose your parent. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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Gina, my thoughts and prayers are with you... Your dad no longer suffers and is up in heaven looking over you.
Hugs
Melissa
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Gina, my heart goes out to you and your family, remember to breath, and know your dad is at peace.
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I am so sorry to hear about your father's death. Thank you for sharing such a touching account of his passing. Although I never knew him, I could feel the love you felt for this very special man. You are fortunate to have had such a wonderful father!
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Thinking of you and your family.
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So, so sorry for your loss! I pray that you are able to focus on the beautiful memories that you have to guide you through this trying time!
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I am so sorry to hear of your families great loss. WOW...I'm having a hard time typing this through the tears and smiles. Your accounting of your father is amazing! Hugs and prayers for you and your loved ones.
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I am ssooo sorry for your loss..your story make me cry so much...even now I am writting and crying...I really feel your loss, eventhough I do not know you I really hope that you can find confort in your loved ones...and yes wherever your father is he is now very happy and I am sure he is watching you
my deepest sympathy
bibiana Martinez-ziegler
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I'm so sorry for your loss Gina! I'm sure your heart is filled with grief! Take comfort in knowing that your Dad is once again at peace and will forever be next to you, guiding you and watching over you!
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Heartfelt prayers are with you and your loved ones, Gina. May God's faithful promises and the hope of eternal life bring you comfort.
With love and prayers,
va
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Oh Gina-
Sending you HUGS!! My thoughts and prayers are with you!!
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I am so sorry for your loss. All the best to you and your family, May God give you comfort xxx
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Gina - I am so sorry. May God grant you peace and comfort. Your dad is now with Him and will be watching over you from above. I will keep your family in my thoughts and prayers.
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Gina, I'm so sorry. May God give all of you the strength and peace you will need in the days and weeks to come. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
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Gina, thank you so much for telling us about your Daddy. He is an amazing man. My heartfelt condolences to you, your Mom, and the rest of your family. God bless.
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Your dad is a very special person, Gina. Thank you for letting us see a glimpse of his life. May your lamps always shine forth with beautiful memories. Hugs and prayers.
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Oh Gina, I'm so so sorry to hear of your loss. I know what it means to lose a parent...not quite something anyone can explain until you experience it. It does sound like your Dad lived a great life, which is certainly carried on through you! You are the best at what you do.
We recently (in November) went through the whole Hospice Care Center process at the site in Fitchburg. If this is where you Father was...I can only say how much I understand how this one facility makes such a difference in the whole process! It just gives me chills to remember. What amazing people working in this facility...
If you plan to do anything to commemorate them... I volunteer to help!
Take care of yourself and your Mom. Life is very precious!
Big Hugz,
Mary (your neighbor!)
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Gina, your post made me reflect back nearly three years ago when I spent the last night of my mom's life here on earth by her side. Like my mom your father is now living without pain and has joined the angels in heaven that guide us here on earth. It is true what Hospice told you some people wait until their loved one leaves the room before passing on. This happened with my grandma - all 4 daughters arrived from 4 different states and when they went to sleep she passed after saying her good-byes, even without speaking. Also my father-in-law did the same thing when my daughters went to visit him in the hospital - when they went down the hall to get something to drink he passed on. God works in mysterious ways. Hold close all your loving memories of him - they will give you comfort going forward.
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Gina, My deepest sympathy for you and your family. May God's love give you and your family comfort. My prayers are with you.
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I'm so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.
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My condolence go out to you and your family! I hope you will seek and accept God's comfort at this time. We will keep you in our prayers!
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Gina--You and your family have been in my thoughts and prayers these past days as you have walked through this valley. May you experience the comfort, peace and presence of God every step of this journey.
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Gina-I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family. This has been a really tough year for my family also, at times I wonder how we will get through it. My mother passed away on Halloween. My father in law passed away in June. My Mother in law just passed on January 20th. It is hard for an adult, but my kids. All their Grandparents within a very short time, is a lot to handle. My Mother in law was also in Hospice and waited for that one moment when we all had left the room. Please know that others feel you pain and are thinking of you at this time. Hugs, Christine G.
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Gina-my thoughts and prayers go out to your mom and your family. may God give you peace, comfort and blessings at this sad time. A beautiful picture too. hugs
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So sorry for your loss. It sounds like he had a very full and happy life and you are so lucky to have spent all the time with him you did, he sounds like an amazing man.
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{{Gina}} I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad your dad is at peace now. We've been through a similar situation with my FIL and as difficult as it was we know he is better now. Sending you all my thoughts and prayers and a big hug!
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I'm so sorry to hear of your family's loss. May the memories comfort you and your family through this difficult time.
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Gina,
My sincere sympathy to you and your family on the loss of your father. From personal experience, this is a difficult time. The grief walk is a long and varied road. The little I know of you, I'm sure you were the light of his life. Rejoice in the memories of your time together. God Bless all of you.
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Gina, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Gina,
I'm crying here reading your post and feeling your pain. I'm so sorry for your loss. I am thankful your dad is once again whole and in now pain. He is smiling and loving his new body and His heavenly father. What a blessing it must be to know where he is. Hugs and prayers coming to you and your family.
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Gina I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I will be praying for you and your family. Sending big hugs to you and it is wonderful you were able to spend the day with him before hand. My dad did the same thing, waited until I was gone to let go. They always do what is best for their children...even at times like this. Hugs!
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You will have so many wonderful memories to to bring you comfort. Bless you and your family, Gina. Kay
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My prayers are with you. He is taken care of and he wants you to take care of you. He will always be with you, just look in the mirror, you are a part of him. He lives forever in your heart and mind. Rejoice for the love of a Father and best friend..Prayers to you and your Family
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I'm so very sorry for the loss of your Dad. He is at peace now and in a better place. My thoughts and Prayers are with you and your family! {{{HUGS}}}
xx Melissa B
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Gina, What a lovely and loving tribute to your father. God bless you and your family.
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I am sorry for your loss. May God bless you and your family at this time.
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Gina, I just read about your dad. What a beautiful tribute to him. I am so very sorry for your loss.
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Hi Gina,
I am so sorry to hear about your Dad's passing. On January 5th my Mom passed. She had been suffering from Alzheimer's and had struggled for some time. Her earthly journey is over but she is now whole again and beginning a new journey. Thank you for your sharing about cremation, my Dad did not have that wonderful image and decided against it for my Mom. My prayers are with you and your family.
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Gina, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your father. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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All the Smith Family's love and prayers to you and your family Gina, as well as for the repose of your Dad's soul.
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Dear Gina,
My heart just aches for you. My deepest sympathies to you and your family. Thank you for sharing your dad's story. He sounds like a greatly talented man who lead a very long and rewarding life. Try not to be too upset that you weren't there at the time of his death. That's the way he wanted it. If you would have been there, he would have waited until you left. I work in Hospice and I've seen and heard many stories to that testimony. Take comfort in the fact that you spent the night before with him and how much that meant to him. When the treasure becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure.
Hugs, Diane
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Dear Gina, I am late with this but wanted to add my condolensces to you and your family in this time of loss. All these comments must be a blessing to you to know that there are others praying for you and wishing you laasting memories of your sweet Father. Losing a parent is never easy...knowing we will see them again is lasting grace. Sincerely, Barb S.
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Hi Gina,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your father. From this photo, he looks so content with the kids. Your father was fortunate enough to have a long life, surrounded by those who loved him unconditionally. May it comfort you to know that one day, you will meet again, and you will be able to wrap your arms around each other. God Bless you and your family. Peace be with you. Gaile
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My prayers are with you and your family. My mom is failing, and I know how heartbreaking this has been for our family. Your dad truly has reached the ultimate goal in life...to be with the Lord.
Diane
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Heartfelt sympathy to you and your family, you will always the remember the treasured memories. May HE carry you in this sad time. Hugs, Susan
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I am sorry for your loss.Your Dad is in peace now!!! Kim
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Gina...I lost my husband in May and know how heavy your heart is but time does heal and you will always have the memories you shared with your Dad. God will help you get through this difficult time.
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Gina, my heart aches for you and your family. My dad passed away 3 years ago this January. He was 87 and yet I feel as if his time with us wasn't long enough. And reading your message gave me chills, tears, and that burning ache in the throat. I sat at my computer and cried for you, but also I realized I was crying again for myself. Time does heal as they say, and as the days pass you'll have these flashes and lapses but then again you'll find the little messages all around you that your dad is still there with you. Just watch for them - a special song, a special image, a special number... they're there when you least expect it. Know that he's right by your side still loving you and your family and his wife. He's the angel riding with you in the car; there at special holidays, there in the silence of the night. Always watching over you; guiding you even still. Take it one day at a time... and God Bless.
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Gina and family,
So sorry to hear of your loss. You're right, your Dad is in a better place where there's no pain at all. I know how you feel - we lost our mother too a year ago but up to this time, I still think of her. I am very far from my family (me being here in Hawaii and them in the Philippines)and never did spent that much time with my mother. Our prayers are with you and your family. Take care and hugs to you and to your Mom.
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oh Gina, I'm really sorry for your loss, but you must find comfort in the knowledge that he is in a better place, where he is healthy and not feeling any pain. God bless you and your family.
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Gina, I am so very sorry. Thinking of you and your family at this sad time. I am glad that you have so many fond memories of your time with your dad though. Those will never go away
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Gina, I am so sorry, truly. I lost my sweet grandmother on Jan. 2nd, and I wasn't ready to let her go, but she wanted it, to see her husband, and her daughter, and I miss her soooo much. There is nothing I can say to make you feel any better, or make the pain any less, but I know that you will find comfort and peace in your memories. Just know that when you close your eyes in the sunshine, and feel the breeze blow or the warmth of the sun on your face, that he is there. I am sure that he was so proud of you, and lived a beautiful life, and it seems as though he passed on some pretty amazing characteristics to you and your girls. Take care of yourself, you all will be in my prayers.
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Gina,You are a very talented artist. I learn so much from you. your story about your father was beautiful. I can see that you have a kind heart and a beautiful life. my mother is 73 almost blind, on dialysis so on. You do inspire me to enjoy everyday with her. I beleive that God was with you when your father past. You are in my prayers. Take care. Dianne
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Your message was eloquently written and as I sit here with tears in my eys feeling foolish and silly for whatever reason, I know not. Please know that you and your family are being lifted in prayer. We all know what a difficult time this is and I also pray that your family will embrace one another and gain your strenth and grace from Jesus. Without faith this time would really be lonely and scary. Hugs, Justine
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Dear Gina,
Your tribute was so beautiful. I am crying so hard i can barely see the screen. I send prayers for you and your family. I also agree with what the nurse said. He wanted to protect his little girl. HUGS
LeeAnn - Ontario, Canada
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Gina,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your familt at this time. I know how hard this is to deal with. My mother dies when my daughter was 7 days old!Take comfort in your memories.
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I'm so sorry for your loss, Gina! I believe the Hospice nurse was right: your Dad wanted to spare you seeing him die and so went quietly before you returned. How he loved you!! And he surely knew how very much you loved him. May God's peace, which DOES surpass all human understanding, be your sustaining comfort as you mourn your Dad's passing and celebrate the beauty of his love and life. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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I am sending prayers your way.
One is never ready to lose a parent.
My heart goes out to you.
Remember how much your Dad loves you.
Hugs.
Sherry
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Oh, Gina, I feel for your loss of one so dear. Remember all the good times (of which I'm sure there are many) and they will always be there to comfort and warm you. Having a dear, beloved father is a blessing many never know, so treasure those happy memories.
Praying for strength and comfort for you and your family during this sad time.
Blessings, Joyce B
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Gina,
I am sorry for your loss of your father. Sounds like he was a wonderful man and father. I will also be praying for strength and comfort for you and your family during this time.
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I am so sorry to hear about your dad! He sounds wonderful. I hope you find some comfort in that he was able to enjoy your family, know that you had found sucess and passion in your life and that he is finally free from suffering.
Long distance hug...
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My Dear Gina
After a bout with CHF (congestive heart failure) I'm just now reading all my e-mail. I was shocked & saddened to learn of your Dad's passing. What a wonderful & multi-talented man he sounds like! A man of many talents. Above all he was a very lucky man in that his daughter felt so much love for him and showed him every chance she got! May the Lord bless you, your Dad, and the rest of your family!!!
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Dear Gina, You are so correct in what you posted. He can see you and your children now, hear them giggling and watch over you now. He is in peace, in a much better place, not just for him, but for you, too. I am quite sure it will be difficult at first, but just remember you will see him again soon enough.
Please know that we will all be here when you feel up to coming back at 'full steam ahead'... Until then, be with your family, where you should be. We will be praying for you and yours.
May God wrap his loving arms around you to remind you just how wonderful of a daughter you are to have spent as much time as you did with your dad! With Sympathy, Nicole
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Gina, I haven't responded right away, because I needed a little time, or so I thought! It's just as hard now, so here goes. My heart is with you. I am still trying to get over losing my dear Dad last July 18th, at the age of 95. I was not as fortunate as you, to have been there with him. They live down in VA & I'm up in MA. I did have my sister hold the phone up to his ear, even though he was deaf as could be, but I know he heard me at some level. I told him how much I loved him & that he was the best Dad ever. I told him it was OK to go. I am bawling my eyes out as I type.
I just wanted to share that with you, Gina. Be thankful you were there up till the end. Like the Hospice nurse said, he didn't want you to watch him die. What a loving father till the very end.
I have to go now, can't keep typing, but hope you are healing more & more each day. Lots of love...
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May God comfort you and your family as you deal with the loss of someone so precious. My heart is aching for you as I know all to well the pain you are feeling. I lost my mom to cancer in October 2008. You all are in my prayers.
Sincerely,
Becky Givans
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I just read this today. My deepest sympathies to you and your family.
Your father sounds like he was an incredible man and that is so beautiful to know. I am happy to hear that you know he is at peace in the loving arms of God. Peace.
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Gina,
So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Thankfully for you and your father it isn't goodbye, but see you later. I pray that you will have rest in the arms of Christ.
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Gina, I am so sorry for the loss of your father here on this earth. He would be so proud of what you wrote in his tribute. I am praying that your special memories and times together will bring peace and comfort to you and your family in the days ahead. I know you will miss him terribly, but he is laughing with the angels in heaven today!
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I am so sorry for your incredible loss. I know the pain seems almost unbearable at this point, but it will subside. My heart goes out to you and I will say a prayer for you and your family.
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Gina, you are in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing about your father. He sounds like such a wonderful man. Big {{{{hugs}}}}!
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Gina...
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult and emotional time. I've lost both my parents, so I know that there are no words that will ease the pain. However, I hope you find comfort in knowing that you have friends (and even people who don't even know you) who are thinking of you.....
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Gina, I am so sorry about your loss. I also believe they cross to the other side trying to spare those behind. Take comfort in knowing that he loved you very much. With understanding sympathy to you and your family.
Hugs, Donna
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Dear Gina,
Your loving tribute for your Father was very touching. I accompany you in your sorrow and stand beside you in your grief. May your memories of him help fill the chasm the loss has left behind.
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Gina & family - Our prayers for your strength are endless. I went through this same thing with my Mother nearly 5 years ago (as of 3/19) and it is not easy. The Hospice Angels are right, our parents do not want us to see them pass away. My Mom did the same thing. But for all she taught me in life, she taught me more in her dying - to be strong, to be unafraid and to believe there is a far better life to go to. One without pain and suffering and one where you can go to wait in comfort and joy, for those you love. Be strong Gina and know that one day you will be reunited with the first man you ever loved - your father.
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Gina and family,
God bless you! What a beautiful thing to have spent this time with your father. You comforted him so! I wish you and your family peace in the days ahead and hope that you find comfort in the memories of your Dad. He sounds like a great man who brought joy to many during his time here in this world............Bless you all!
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Gina, My heart truly goes out to you in the loss of your father. I recently lost my Dad about 2 1/2 months ago. He died of a massive heart attack at the young age of 64 years. He was the joy of my life. I was his only daughter and my life will never be the same. I saw him a week before he died, he was feeling perfectly and I never dreamed that I would never see his smiling face or feel his hug again on the earth. I only know that Heaven gained a great man the day he died. He left behind 8 grandsons and 1 granddaughter-that will miss him terribly. It is truly a comforting thing to know that they (your dad and mine) are happy, healthy and whole today and looking down on us each and every day.
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Gina,
I am so sorry for your loss. My sympathies to you and your family.
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Gina My heart goes out to you and your family. I hope you find comfort in each other. God Bless you All.
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Your words brought tears to my eyes. May your happy memories sustain you during this difficult time.
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Gina,
My prayers are with you and your family. He looks like he is very loved and will be greatly missed. You can never have too many angels.
I love the picture of him with your family. He looks like he was a happy, smiley man.
Hugs,
Lauri
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Gina, you have my heartfelt sympathy in the loss of your father. I lost my own 12 years ago but the memories will never fade away. Take comfort in knowing he knew how important he was to you and that he is looking down on you with eternal love.
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Gina, my prayer for you and your family is that the love your father obviously had for you lives on in you and your love for each other. Cherish those sweet memories. I lost my father 20 years ago, and we still remember him so vividly as we retell all the funny and sweet stories about him when we are together.
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Gina, I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
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Gina,
My condolence on the loss of your father. I work for Hospice in Fdl, WI and I agree with the Hospice nurse that your father waited until you left to continue his journey in eternity. Hold on to the night he gave you to be with him and feel the warmth of his body and touch. The next time you look up and see a star in the sky, please remember this.
Perhaps they are not stars in the sky, but openings where our loved can let us know that they are happy, free from pain and are watching over you.
Blessings to you and your family
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My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. I pray the Lord will give you a special Peace that only He can...
Hugs,
Sherri
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Gina, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I lost my daddy to Cancer almost 17 yrs ago, when he was only 47. Watching him go through that was the hardest thing ever, as you know all too well. When he passed, I took comfort in knowing that he was no longer in pain. I hope you can keep focus on that, too, and of all the good times you shared. It sounds like he was an incredible daddy, and you were one lucky girl. I'm glad you got to spend the night before with him, and I would believe the nurse's words and be thankful he spared you the pain of his actual passing. I did get to see my daddy go, and wished I had been spared. But like you, I spent the night before with him. After a couple of weeks of not knowing who we were, he, for a change, was in his right mind, and we talked, remembered and reminisced, laughed, and shared. Afterwards, he said he was so tired and just wanted to rest, and he never woke up. I will always treasure that last night with him, as I know you will treasure your last night with your dad, too. Hold on to the good memories, and they will help you through the painful moments of missing him. You and your family are in my prayers. I pray you find comfort in your memories, and in God's mercy and love.
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My condolences for your loss. I lost my daddy to Cancer too, and I know what you are going through. Hold on to your memories, and they will help you through the pain of missing him. It sounds like he was an incredible daddy and you were one lucky girl. I pray for you to find comfort in your memories, and in God's love. Find peace in knowing that he is no longer in pain, and is finally at Home. You and your family are in my prayers.
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Gina, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. He was such a blessed man to have so many that loved him. I'm sure your spending the night with him was a treasure for both of you.
I lost my dad to cancer 8/07 and just like you, knowing he opened his eyes to see his Heavenly Father, what peace that gives to those who are grieving. Take care.
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Gina, I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my own father 15 years ago so I know how hard this is. I'm so glad you got to spend some of his last moments with him. You will treasure that always. May God bring you peace in this time of sorry. Hugs to you and your family.
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Gina, My heart goes out to you at this time. How wonderful you got to spend the night with him. That would have been such a special moment for you both. It is hard to lose a parent and my best wishes go out to you and your family at this time. You tribute to your dad was so touching, he sounds like an amazing man.
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*HUGS* It's always great knowing others are there and we all are! I pray for all my stamping friends especially in a time of need.
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Gina I am so sorry for your loss! *HUGS* Have peace that he is pain free now and in a good place watching over all of you with clear vision.
My grandmother passed in September. She held on to her last breath until all 5 of her children were there, they know somehow know when the right time is to go and it is a comfort knowing that he spent that night with you and waited until it was right for you to pass.
You and your family are in my prayers *HUG*
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Dear Gina and family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I sounds like your dad was a very special man. I pray that Jesus will hold you close to himself during this very difficult time. May our Most Holy Farther Bless and Keep you now and Forever.
Much Love,
Deb Vandersteeg
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Dear Gina, when we lose those who are such an important part of our lives, it breaks our hearts. Know that your dad is in great hands and will always be watching over you and your family. I am truly sorry for your loss. Jan
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Gina, My sincere sympathy to you and your family. My Mom just passed on Feb. 1st, also. I understand your grief. It was sudden and a shock to us all. One of my thoughts were that she would not have to see our pain upon her passing. It seems she went peacefully and that gives us comfort. May it comfort you to know how many people send their warmth and heartfelt wishes to you and your family at this time. God Bless.
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My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. I lost my father-in-law to cancer this past November. We also found comfort in knowing he no longer suffered, but rose above to the Heavens to be with our Creator.
May the Lord bless you and surround you with love and comfort....
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OH, Gina, what you just wrote was beautiful. May you find peace and comfort in the happy memories of your dad! Hugs and prayers to you and your family!
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Gina, I am so sorry for your loss. How wonderful that you were able to spend that time with him cuddling at the very end. I lost my mom last year, she was also on hospice, but at home and the nurses were our "angels" too, they took wonderful care of her and helped us to understand what was happening during her last hours. They made an unbearable time, a little bit easier.
Big hugs to you and your family. Remember the good times and I'm glad your dad can see and hear again
Take care, Nora Anne
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Gina my thoughts and prayers go out to you in your time of need, losing a father is not easy. I loved your tribute to him it was beautiful.
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Gina, I just read the tribute to your dad. So sorry for your loss. The ones that are left behind cry because of the loss but know that he is happy now and that he's in a better place watching over you and all the ones that he loves.
Just keep the wonderful memories alive and keep smiling. I'm sure that is the way he wants to see you...smiling that beautiful smile!
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You, and your family have my deepest sympathy Gina. I'm so sorry to hear of your father's passing.
Sending virtual hugs,
Jillian
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Just found this post Gina and so glad I did. As a father I can't imagine any sweeter way to go than to have my girls there with me and just love them one last time. So awesome that you got to do that.
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Gina,
What a beautiful tribute to your father... I just lost my Mom a month ago and I am still devasted. There is nothing like the pain or the enormous hole in your heart from losing a parent. My Mom died suddenly and was my best friend... it is a terrible "club" to be in... I saw your tribute from a splitcoaststampers link. My Mom and I stamped all the time and she was even my downline for SU. I am so grateful to have had that bond that gave us many hours of laughter, enjoyment and love we shared for stamps and eachother. I pray God sends you peace to help ease your pain, as I know your heart is breaking... God Bless You... From a fellow stamper in Missouri
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Gina and family, blessings in the Name of all Names, I AM. What a family reunion comes with earthly graduation! Praying the Comforter is your strength and guide in these coming days. Praying peaceful, joyful memories to be written and shared another day with the children and grandchildren of Benjamin A., your beloved daddy. You are special to so many; thank you for sharing this monument in time with all of us to uplift you and your family.
Keep Looking Up!
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Gina, I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my father in 1996 and I still miss him greatly so I undertstand your loss. As you said, now he is healthy again and with his loved ones that have gone before. I wish you peace.
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I just read of you Dad's passing. First let me say to you my heart and prayers go out to your family. I believe things happen for a reason and I believe I was supposed to have read your blog today. I have had a pretty tough day. Today is my Mom's BDay. She passed away 9 yrs ago. My father passed away a year and half ago from cancer. When he passed we inherited his dog, his best bud, "Little Bit" who has given us great joy. Today had to put her to sleep due to cancer. So today kind of stinks. Your blog brightened my day. With both our parents, we did not make it there to be with them. After reading your post, I now know why Mom and Dad chose to go without us being there. They, too, would not want to see us upset. I want you to know, even while you are in the midst of your loss, you (and your dad) have lifted the spirits of a complete stranger. God Bless. I shall keep you and yours in my prayers.
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Gina, I am so sorry for your loss. I am praying God will give you peace and comfort as you rest in Him during this time.
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Gina
I am very sorry to hear about you Dad's passing... I just lost my Father 3 weeks ago... Similar to your Dad, mine was also very sick, he struggled for many years... However; I cannot know what you are going through because we are all very different and feel differently... It would really upset me when people would say, "I know how you feel." because they didn't know how I felt... 1 minute I was sad, the next angry, and the next happy for him, that he was free often within a few seconds of each other... Every night since he passed away I have dreamt of him, but last night for the first time, I dreamt that he was gone, and it bothered me... I'm guess that like me, you are wondering when the pain will go away, and I really wish I knew... I do have a new outlook though "I have good minutes, and bad minutes. Eventually they will become hours, then become days, onto weeks, and finally occasions"... I know it will never go away, but I do think it will get better, and easier... I want to also share a thought that my best friend shared with me... Don't hold back anything, if you are sad, then cry, if you are mad, then yell. Don't let anyone tell you how you should be feeling or dealing. And do not let anyone take away your emotions, it is those emotions that will help you heal...
I hope this helps you a bit at this time, even though I do not know you or have ever spoken with you before... Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers...
If you need someone to talk to, I am here... perhaps we can help each other...
Jason
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Hi Gina and family. My sincere condolences for you all.
Eveline.
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With the happiness of life comes the sadness of death...but,for believers of
the Lord Jesus Christ, the best is yet to be for us all. You and your family are in my prayers.
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Gina,
We all love our Dads...I can tell yours was very, very special to you. My Dad passed away a couple of years ago in an auto accident, I was 53 and being the oldest had to be the strongest (I thought). It was hard for me to grieve and I held it in. Over time little things remind me of him and 'my' loss. I've cried a few times and it's helped. Reading your post about your Dad being in the arms of Christ opened a river of tears for me and I truely appreciate it. Grieving comes hard for me and everytime I can just give way to the feelings, it helps. Thank you so much for the wonderful tribute to your Dad.
Debra in Conroe, Texas
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Gina,
I wanted to let you know how truly sorry I am for your loss. I too lost my father from cancer November 2007. The memories of our last month together are priceless. Hold onto those close times you shared with him. I will have you in my prayers because I do know what you are going through. With Love, Julie Crossley
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"Yesterday at 5:00 PM, my Dad's eyes were finally opened, his ears could finally hear again. His body was young and strong....and he was enveloped in the arms of Christ. "
Gina, that gave me chills because it made me realize that in the twinkling of an eye we will be transformed and free! My heart is just filled with wonder and excitement to know that your dad has been welcomed home, and I know that you find comfort in that as well. It will probably be all you have to hold onto for a while. Thanks for sharing your bittersweet account of your dad's life. He sounds amazing...a comedian, an Olympic athlete, a craftsman....amazing! Guess the apple doesn't fall far from the tree
Hugs and prayers,
Connie
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What a precious last-night you were so blessed to spend with your Daddy. God is good to know just what we need here on earth and what he needed before he went home to his Father in Heaven. YOu will always be his littl girl and one day you will see him again just as God promised. My prayers are with you and my God be your great comforter.
Susie Young
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